3 bad advice on how to raise a child from the manipulator

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Psychologist Alexander Shakhov gave parents some bad advice: do not do it, if you do not want your child has grown manipulator.

1. Down sequence. Today one, tomorrow another, and the next day all of the above regulations cease to act... And be sure to tell your child that all the rules are important.

So you deprive the baby of stability and understanding of what is happening. He learns that it is possible to give and to take away the promise of your own.

2. Be emotionally cold and distant.

Not soft, educate discipline. Nothing that he has a small child and does not know how much. Say what excuses for the weak. The children must be handled strictly, because... otherwise do not understand?

3. Become emulated. Who has a child can learn to manipulate others, if not their own parents? Use the child's feelings to manipulate... Help you regret, guilt, threats and blackmail. A child ceases to trust others.

Again, this advice in any case can not be applied in practice, if you do not want to grow manipulator. Good luck!

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