Cyclicity - the basis of the universe. Subordinated to the laws of cyclicity and human life. Each cycle of personal development lasts 7 years, has its meaning, features and tasks and end the crisis, which leads to the next cycle. Understanding and taking into account the sequence of cycles, parents can achieve much better results in the education of their children a harmonious personality, able to find their place in life.
The seven-year cycles have been known since ancient times, philosophers have talked about them at the dawn of civilization, and modern scholars unanimously confirm the wisdom of the ancients. And ancient astrology, and modern psihoinformatika person (socionics) are unanimous: the person's life divided into seven-year intervals, and filling of mental functions occurs with a seven-year intervals.
Cycles are counted starting from the birth, and in each of these people live a little life. The acquisition of the necessary experience and knowledge in these periods provides a holistic and multifaceted development of the body, intellect and psyche.
The first cycle of 0-7 years. Relationship with the world, the first link in a long chain of successive filling information psyche. The challenge for the individual at this stage - to be able to show their innate abilities and self-identification.
How does this happen? Communication with the material world for the new man is still very illusive and reduced to a relationship with the mother. That is why the mother is so necessary. Knowledge begins with sensory sensations - taste, color, smell, sound, tactile impressions. At first they give the most information to the child. The first seven years of his life the baby is in a safe cocoon of maternal love, and this gives a feeling of a cocoon of protection. The whole world is a child of the inner circle. On how comfortable it is, it depends on his future life.
The main words this age period "can" (0-3 years) and "want" (3-7 years), and the cycle can be called "perpetual motion." The task of parents at this stage - to create conditions for the manifestation of the child inherent nature programs.
In practice, this means "intelligent restraint." On the one hand, the child must assert itself to 7 years, so strong deterrence is unacceptable. The consequences of excessive pressure - the child grows liar, weak and downtrodden. The consequences of lack of restraint - child grows selfish and idler.
Observe the child and be sure to understand, what kind of child you grow: it is an extrovert or an introvert, sensing or intuit, ethics and logic. After all, before the age of 3 years of basic mental functions are shown clearly. Give your child in this period of life is not just an opportunity to be yourself, but also a constant food to replenish his strongest qualities. They were the first to come to work after giving birth to prepare for the implementation of the program of the individual tasks.
Create the conditions for a real, vital content basic mental needs of the child in these years was the maximum. Extrovert - communication and the ability to self "show", to be the center of attention, the introvert - the opportunity to be alone with him and take a break from people with sensory - an opportunity to explore the world with all the senses, touch, smell, smear and to pick, Intuit - to dream and fantasize, logic need restraint, calm dialogue, but ethics - on the contrary, it is necessary and to show and to receive more emotion.
After 3 years a period which is perceived by many parents as the age of the vagaries of time, or "I want". Do not jump to conclusions. From 3 to 7 years - the fitting on all that gives life. Trying and trying, the child acquires the right to their mental model "odezhku" -Information and efficiently, independently fills blocks of mental functions. The fact that it does not fit, is not digestible, not "digested" - rejects. This overriding search time by searching and creative child learns. During this period, it is important to allow the baby to be a creator: sculpt, paint, twist, spin, fold, etc. characteristic behaviors in this age: the numerous questions, the desire to imitate and copy: in behavior, in skills, in activity.
Aerobatics for parents - pass the "naughty" age without taboo-force methods. Manifesting itself in activity - modeling, sweeping the floor, cleaning toys, singing, poems, and any other activities, the child "shows" itself, thus claiming their place in this world. It is important to notice it and praise - because in a cycle two mental functions are active - instilled (longs for information) and the reference (waiting for a third-party assessment).
On the other hand, age up to 7 years - it's time for vaccination against selfishness. The foundation of love, compassion, caring and responsibility for others is laid at this age. If up to seven years, the child does not understand that he is not the center of the universe, to correct it in the future it is unlikely to succeed.
Teach love and respect for all living things: nature, animals, other children, family members. Do not let the animals or hurt the other kids, baby monitor selfishness.
remember, that change cycles accompanied by crises. The first significant crisis "waiting" in the age of seven (physiologically transition marked by the appearance of the first permanent teeth). It is associated with the inevitable expansion of the local environment and the new requirements of the child. At this age, he goes to school, the boundaries of his world are moved on, and the first load of responsibility falls on the shoulders. How to help him and how to behave parent? The main thing - to lay the understanding that the world is not hostile and benevolent. The kid will grow up with confidence that he tries, his world supports. A sense of meaning applies force gives rise to a growing human desire to grow, to become better, to move forward. Otherwise, the child's soul forever dwell distrust of the world, the eternal doubt, apathy and lack of initiative.
The crisis - this is a test, change. Together with your child the first seven-year exam pass and parents. Seven years you were for a baby nurses, parents. It is time to become mentors parents.
To be continued
