All children - visionaries and inventors. And from their imaginations usually no harm. But there are times when parents is vital to know whether the child is telling the truth. And it's not as difficult as it seems at first glance.
Liar static. He who speaks the truth, unknowingly uses a lot of gestures. But the liar tries to once again not to fidget, which, according to Glass, is a sign of a primitive "fight neurological" because he subconsciously preparing for a possible confrontation. Therefore, if your restless child suddenly starts to behave "static," it is a sure sign that it is unclean.
Sharp head movement. Subsequent to the way the child responds to the direct question "on the forehead." If before you answer, he threw his head back slightly, tilt it down or to the side, it is quite possible, he's going to lie to you.
Touching the throat or mouth. It is very telling signals, according to Glass, proving that you are trying to cheat. Moreover - touching the throat, usually means that the other person is nervous and feels insecure. If he now and then touching the mouth or covers it with his hand, then just do not want to speak the truth.
Liar takes time ayt.Often an adult before you start telling the truth, take a cup of coffee or will delve into his things without any need for it. Thus, it is gaining time in order to properly reflect on their lies. The child, in fact, does the same: it can, for example, cough, ask for a glass of juice or bend down to tie his shoelaces.
Deceiver often something fiddles with.Whether it's a pencil, a piece of paper, a lock of hair or any other small object. However, as Glass points out, this gesture is not always necessary to make far-reaching conclusions: there is simply nervous people who are accustomed to this way to remove stress. More likely it was the hand give the liar in another case: if a child feels that you saw through his deception, he starts to get angry, and poke a finger in your direction. Here it is - a sure sign of insincerity.
Liar tries to ignore. Adult will "hide" behind your desk or "blocked by" monitor, the child also uses this method - possibly with the help of your favorite soft toy. Both adults and children, when not telling the truth, often deviate from the person or priobnimayut themselves. Even while talking deceiver will try to stay away from you, not to indulge in their personal space.
Eyes betray all. If the child does not look you in the eye, carefully look away - there is reason to guard. But it also happens strictly on the contrary - the more "advanced" a liar can literally force you to make eye contact, to mislead. Deceiver will issue one caveat - he would try not to blink at the same time.
And be sure to ask abouthow to distinguish between children's fantasy of lies
