How to raise a child in a divorced family

In such a situation, the main task of the parents do not share a child, and provide him with maximum comfort and a healthy atmosphere. For this you need to know a few useful principles of education.

1. First of all we must understand that to maintain a family for a child, when a poor relationship between parents - does not make sense. After all, children are constantly observing quarrels and conflicts of adults often have mental problems.

2. It is impossible to cut parental authority. The child must understand that both parents - it's important people in his life. For example, when a divorced mother constantly speaks ill of his father, then later a little child will understand that you can not obey the pope.

3. Also, parents should be in the same amount to pay attention to and engage in the development of their baby. When Mom and Dad do not live together, the child may feel some loneliness, which can replace only the attention of parents.

4. Pamper baby because guilt is not worth it. This way you can grow very exacting egoist.

5. And one of the most important points: the baby needs properly explain why parents no longer live together, or he may feel guilty in the divorce, or start to manipulate the situation.

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