Every parent, while raising their children, not once faced with a term such as age crisis. This also applies to the three-year and five-year and seven years of age, but minor problems arising in these times, simply "fade" on the background of transition age youth.
What is this "terrible beast" such that everyone is talking about, starting almost from birth cute offspring? If you have already hit this, then, you know perfectly well what was going on, but this is what to do with it? This is the second question. If it has not "grown" to him, it is better to prepare for its meeting in advance. In any case, to help parents come "treatise" on the subject, and written by a man who is faced with these challenges head-on literally every day - Nigel Latta book with the eloquent title "While your teen is not brought with you crazy. "
So, your rosy-cheeked baby has grown up, you've gone through with it endless sleepless nights, accompanied by colic, teething, hourly feeding, changing diapers. Now toddler went to school, no longer "does" in his pants, and you are left mentally perfectly healthy (as well as "promised" Nigel Latta in his first book,
with whom we have already met, "As long as your child is not brought you crazy").
In the second book, the author will share tips based on concrete examples from life, how to survive in a family with a teenager and stay until the end of sound mind, and even maintaining a normal relationship with him. Reading the book, you will surely feel yourself at the reception with a first-class therapist, since all the situations described by the author, occur most often at his reception.
From the first pages, you will learn what is really going on with your child, and very gently, without arcane medical terms. You can easily understand not only the consequences of hormonal explosion, but in fact, what happens to his body and how radically rearranged his brain. You are even in some moments, is not accompanied by a positive behavior, cease to be angry with your child growing up, perhaps it with all your heart, as you will be aware of the fact that the child himself does not know what to do with all this "in bulk" to him growing up.
Do not expect that after reading the book, your child will change drastically. The whole point of the author's idea is to change your attitude to this situation, and then probably work boomerang effect and you can not indulge in panic and without dropping the hands, through this difficult time for you and your child period. You are uniquely different eyes look at the daring teenagers "are favored," and knowing, thanks to Nigel Latta, the structure of their not fully "Insulate" the brain will begin to quietly respond to sudden and sharp stop temper tantrums even try to analyze why this is It is happening.
The author refers to this calm and he "even like to work with obnoxious teenagers and like their country behavior anarchist philosophy and the ability to turn the most simple and clear things in New Orleans during the Hurricane. "
Nigel Latta, thanks to its long experience, led the ten basic principles, which proposes to use, and you as a "compass that helps to choose the way forward."
I would like to tell you now about all these principles, but it is impossible, because it is from them, mainly, and is only a book and read it to the end, you will be able to learn "survival lessons" among teens.
Moreover, the author suggests to familiarize with the principles of exposure to teen parents and this one, in my opinion, the most interesting and informative chapters. I personally, are now in the process of education of the teenager, can subscribe to every point he consciously or intuitively teenager wielding level, seeking their own benefit and "finishing off" at the same time parents. Knowing all applied to your teenager "weapon", you automatically are arming themselves, providing itself with the complete safety and more. In other words - knowledgeable, it is forearmed.
This book - a real storehouse of methods to counter the results of which are striking in their unexpectedness, and many more useful information that you need to know and be able to apply to each parent, while not forgetting to continue to love their children for what they are. And remember the most important: teenagers need a reason to be good, and a reason to not be bad!
