The teenager does not want to help around the house, parents complain. Today's children are much less likely to help with the economy than our generation at the same age. How to teach a child to domestic duties?
How to teach a teenager to help around the house / istockphoto.com
Clearly set the rules
Tell your child what help you need and why. Requests should be clear. For example, he has to clean up in his room, wash their dishes, vacuuming the apartment.Do not remove the things of a child
If the mess at the teenager in the room, do not remove him. Even if it should come to the tutor or your family members are going to visit. Once experiencing discomfort due to dirt in the room, the child will begin to clean up. Do not collect his things, even when he throws them in other rooms. Instead, install the sanctions - are not going to walk until not gather clothes, etc.
remove together
If you arrange every weekend spring cleaning., It should involve all. It should not be that you take away with the child, and Dad watching TV. Determine for each family member work front, and follow him.
Natural punishment due to carelessness
If the baby is not thrown in a box for clothes dirty things, they are automatically considered to be clean and will not be erased. If the child does not wash for a cup, he would have to drink from dirty, etc.
Rule one reminder
Many parents look like a teenager about cleaning 10 times per day. Those only are irritated by such molestation. Remind your child 1 times. I do not put the things off the couch in the hallway, not put it in the room - do not go for a walk. So he will learn responsibility.
When teaching children teen to order, do not need to go too far and spoil the relationship with the child. Patience, perseverance and humor mom - these are the pillars on which should be based Children puberty.
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