We have so many requirements for children - we want them to feed and teach and educate. And the perception we have with our offspring is very different, and it turns out that we are talking with them in different languages.
Kids listen to us, but do not hear, so do not fulfill our requests or act differently. What to do? A little cheat! These 10 tricks if used correctly can help you quickly achieve the desired, instead of tantrums and insults. Try it!
1. Not Burch:"Come soon as you're digging!"
Give the command: "So, get ready! Ready, set, run! "
2. Do not threaten: "Do not eat the soup and the second, the sweet is not even think about it!"
Gladden child: "When we see the bottom of the plates, on the other plate for you will be something incredibly tasty, mmm." And smacked intriguing.
3. Do not be rude: "What a mess you spread! Come on, quickly take away! "
tellsad and dreamy"Would I have a friend a magician, I would have asked him to clean the table / room of debris ..." You can learn a few spells from the Harry Potter books, just in case - to motivate. For example, the up "Wingardium Leviosa" or all leaves out of sight "Deletrius".
4. Do not growl at the baby when busy:"Who said do not bother me!"
Find the strength to smile promise"Come and play a little bit, and then arrange a mini-holiday (the tea party, a disco, a master class in baking buns, cartoon view, etc.)
5. Do not fret: "So, Come on, without hysteria, put on what I said! The sweater in the wash! "
Try to soften the child's disappointment"Wow, this is a great fashionable outfit turns. Let's put on! "And ask your child's choice. Or ask them to choose their own clothes. 5 minutes will not make the weather, and the mood set by the morning, help to live in the positive after day.
6. Instead weary banal: "I go to sleep you ever ?!"
Ask the restless: "I wonder what kind of dream you dream tonight, if we put under your pillow this little thing (a little book, a button, a small toy)?"
7. Do not promise angrily:"Now I will give the pope!"
Try to catch your breath with a joke: "That-a-ak, I'm very, very, very angry, and if someone is not at rest (not begin to brush your teeth, get dressed, do my homework, etc.), I have it now as a bite!"
8. Not to recognize his impotence, shouting: "I do not want to hear anything! All do as I say! "
In a tense moment when the baby is about ready to make a hysterical shout: "Just look again ran the monster moods. Oh, look, he wants to jump on you! Let's open the door for him / window - let runs into the street, and then he will spoil the mood of us. "
9. Not tediousness, If crumb tired and hardly takes your words: "Well, do you understand?! How much more I repeat to you? "
Include humor and his spy "skills": "Welcome, welcome, mother-son, welcome! I give the young genius of the NN, handsome, champion, thunderstorms all Lego bricks, cars, guns and plush toys secret information from the secret center. Reception, again, was heard. "
10. Leave didactic question: "So, while you have your hands clean? With soap and washed?! "
Better-inspiring intriguing offer: "I want to bet with your palms now such black water drip."
It's amazing how our new tone and a new "stacked" change request response Nehochuha small and capricious. Dissatisfied muzzle is replaced by a smiling face, which is so eager to kiss.
Be sure to read, 7 phrases which can not be said for the child tableAnd that in any case you can not tell the child if he is crying.
