Few of the parents did not touch the problem of children's dislike of studying. Why are children so stubbornly refuse to "take up the mind" - and how to actually make a child learn?
we analyze the situation
Variations on "I do not want to learn" a great multitude! Think about how long ago reduced learning motivation in your child. In general, we can highlight some of the most common reasons why there is such a motivational "slump", writes the portal Smak.ua.
"Learning is boring"
We admit that 11 years devoted to the school system, bear little resemblance to the entertaining trip to Disneyland. For rolling and children, especially adolescent consciousness mandatory "stints" in class that they are not interested in - a real hard labor.
Not all objects require an active creative approach that would "wake up" the child in the classroom and gave him the opportunity to prove themselves.
And, of course, a lot depends on the teacher. And if the teacher is not as fortunate as we would like to find an interesting and - most importantly! - life in many things have just parents.
If it is - is your case, then the next step should be discussed with the child's interests. Perhaps the time has come to set priorities - in fact in such a voluminous and diverse curriculum simply physically can not be interested in it!
On the other hand, just can not be that "generally all" was not interested. It may be wise to push off from what he enjoys outside of school, and then later found a useful link with the school subjects? Just in a difficult adolescence, a child has formed a well-defined range of interests, which should not be ignored.
"Learning is difficult"
It's true. There is much talk about the congestion information of children, "superfluous" knowledge. On the other hand, the curriculum is designed for a body of knowledge is not accidental and is completely digestible "average child".
Most often, difficulties arise from the omission of any material or systematic failure of homework. Discuss the situation with your child: maybe the problem is that he does at some point missed something, was ill, misunderstood a topic - and now the lessons were for him a real torture?
Not only that, when the subject has become unclear, it is automatically turned into a very boring - think, because it is on it child is constantly experiencing a failure situation, and this has a negative impact not only on academic performance but also on the self-assessment of your Chad! Its natural protective response is resistant dislike for a particular lesson, attempts to avoid these torment any means.
In this case, you should consider additional lessons with a teacher or hire a tutor. And, you may have to pay more attention to thorough home preparation, to try to understand complex topics with your child.
To be continued
