Reverent attitude to children in Jewish families has long been a byword. Jewish mother and Jewish grandmother - are synonymous care level 80 or even higher.
Happiness and well-being of their children the Jews around the world were proclaimed a national idea, and every family - in the strict rule grooming of children, Lola, and children themselves - this boundless love to accept and grow in the light of parental attitudes confident and happy people.
What is the nuance? Here is a 6 golden rules for education of children in Jewish families.
1. Our child - the most intelligent and the most beautiful, and it can sometimes be wrong
Mom is important to her child understand why the act that made the gold or even diamond child, really bad and is not encouraged by society. And the central tenet in the verdict, even very angry Jewish mother - a bad thing, but not the child who committed it.
And my mom, this conclusion necessarily announce so to kill two birds with one stone: first, to praise his son, and then "incriminate" him done foolishly: "Ah-ah-ah, how do you such a nice boy, good girl, the future academician and a millionaire, and maybe even the president could do this? Do not do that, and you'll be like Mark Zuckerberg, and even better! "
2. My child does not have a free minute, but there is a bright future
Children in Jewish families should be able to play a musical instrument, to know a couple of foreign languages, shine in math, write poetry, draw portraits of my mother. Simply put, the laziness of these children removed from the list, and the right to free time. Less time - less stupid. "Rested in his villa by the sea, where it is you, my clever, will be."
3. My child everything is possible, moreover, that he could not
Jewish children in the family is allowed to very, very much, but on minor offenses condoned. BUT! There are things that even for a Jewish child - a taboo. And point. And let come the second coming, everyone can not be the same.
In the list of "impossible" - an insult to seniors, poor learning, disregard for their health and the health of loved ones. For example, that American presidents carved with greenbacks, slightly reprimanded, but that hurt or grandmother walked through puddles, can dress down and with passion.
4. The world needs to know how wonderful my golden child!
Children in Jewish families are proud of not only in the framework of its "cell of society", the exploits of his "diamond" Jewish mother must share with everyone. So your child a little proud, and all acquaintances, friends and even neighbors, and the child - all good. How not to spoil porridge with oil, and did not spoil the child of such seasonings, as praise.
5. My child will be happy in his family, if he will take their cue from their mom and dad
Be happy in your family, that the child was happy in her. And the child a good example for parents. Son, just watching your actions and copies in the future. Axiom.
All the basics of education of children we bring from their own families. Want your child to be happy, you learn to live a happy life for yourself. Let your family reign love and mutual respect, and the child realizes that his mother and father - in the first place - happy husband and wife, and only then - happy parents their golden children.
6. My child will be the best parent
And not only because he knows the science to be happy, but from childhood knew the basics of parenting - knows what the family is responsible dad, and for that the response mom and grandma.
By the way, in Israel even teach science to be exemplary parents in the school and in the synagogue. Therefore marriage to a Jewish mother's Zolotcov already fully formed opinions about how to parent their own Zolotko the most intelligent and beautiful baby in the world.