My pregnant girlfriend recently returned from Norway. With affection and admiration she told me that this is - a country of ideal dad. Threatening the descendants of the Vikings the first days of the baby wear it in a sling and go to the party of the popes. Then she wondered how to bring the father to the child-rearing?
These interests and moms who requests to sit with your child hear from their husbands, they say that they are busy. At the same time they are watching TV or flipping a newspaper. Can I re-dad? And when to bring him to the education of children of?
Pregnancy
Ideal start to tie the father to the child hardly test showed the first two strips. Dad will feel the same involved in the birth of a new life, like my mother. Visit with him a doctor and go to the US. Let you not only touches fetal heart thud.
paternal instinct
In the period from 0 to 3 moms make the biggest mistake - dads debarred from education. Grow, then go on a fishing trip together! Yes he can, he is no breasts? He's such a terrible, even drop it? Do not drop it! And without breasts dad can shake, play and go with the child into the street. It is important to involve them even the smallest aspects of education. The fact that men do not have the innate instinct of fatherhood. He - a social one. Pope's affection to the child depends on the amount of time allocated to him. The more a man involved in the education, the more quality time to spend with their children.
Restoring attachment
And what if the time lost? Can a husband to develop the instinct of fatherhood? Good news - you can. The bad news - it is difficult and takes a long time. To begin with no pressure on the partner, "Oh you're so-so, children are not doing." It is easy to fight off the desire to bring good. Without a strong head, talking about the importance of his involvement in the family business. Also try to keep the child for a short time: an hour or two. Believe me, Dad handle. There is an opportunity to leave her husband to the hospital with the child - use it. Gradually develop into affection for the Pope, and you will notice that he spends more time with the baby. And most importantly, that he and the baby it will be a joy.
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