Raise a child using punishment, screams and threats impossible. Thus we have no influence on the behavior of the child, but only to intimidate him cornered and reset it its power. This does not tire of talking and child psychologists are well aware Indian parents. Children are made to grow in love and not to punish even the most notorious rascals.
Let's look at how mothers manage to keep the Indian Buddhist calm and not yell at their children.
kindness upbringing. Do you know what is ahimsa? This concept comes to us from the Vedic Indian treatises. It means - "not harming anything living." Exactly educate Indian children. They are taught carefully and to respect not only to the surrounding people, but also animals. Tolerance and restraint is considered in Indian families the highest virtue, and excessive emotionality and irritability is not approved.
The influence of the media. In Indian families, children are trying to cut off the flow of information. As a rule, children are allowed to watch on TV only creative and educational programs. Also closely monitored Internet access as aggressive information may cause adverse effects on a person.
Good manners.Indian mothers are trying to "from childhood" to instill in their children good manners. First of all it concerns the rules of behavior at the table, even in the narrow family circle. Children are taught to cover clothes cloth, take the food of his right hand, not to talk at the table. And if the two-year crumbs antics at the table are forgiven, for the older kids, they are simply unacceptable.
The sample to be emulated. In India, we believe that everything comes from the family, and most importantly - a good example. Therefore, instead of moralizing about how to behave, older, and often several generations living under one roof, just demonstrate this from personal experience.
Strong relationship. There are not afraid to teach the child to the hands, and if he is distressed, immediately take your hands, hug, cuddle. In addition, children under a certain age often sleeps with her mother in the same bed.
School education.The school is also supported by an atmosphere of kindness, children are allowed to make mistakes, learn to think and reason out loud, and the lessons are often conducted in the form of discussions. In addition to conventional disciplines teach yoga to children, lessons of memory and a smile. There are not forced to learn and form a habit to think, help to unlock the potential.
Without elevated tones. Indian teacher had not only failed to improve the children's voice, but did not even have the right to express dissatisfaction with their wards, or any other negative emotions in their address. And also do not require the children what they do not hold themselves. On the teachers' meetings in India to discuss the behavior of teachers, not students.
Outdo themselves. It does not compare children with each other, but only with the former. Any achievement, any work on yourself is important. Indian child wants to improve its performance to beat himself, and not a neighbor's party.
Displays of affection.Indian teachers do not hesitate to embrace the disciple praise, encouragement. But they can not release pets as good deserves to be treated any child.
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