Walking in the park peacefully slumbering baby in a sling, making purchases in the store or in the queue for admission to the children's clinic, there will always be people who know how to care for your child better than you. "In a sling, he twisted his back. Without hats sell it. This is not to buy, it is absolutely impossible, and in general it is you thin, it is better to feed, mother "- give unsolicited advice-wishers.
They look at you disapprovingly, hush tongue and shake their heads. And you, as if something were guilty, presses his head into his shoulders and look away. Editorial Kolobok.ua collected top 7 most common "wise" advice, which shall be communicated to hear young mothers.
Feed the baby! This advice №1. You can hear it when the baby cries or reached at the store for a roll. The fact that he could cry on his colicky or he wants to sleep, but for a roll stretching is not what hungry, and out of curiosity, "experts", of course, does not take into account. They are much better than you understand your needs crumbs. And if you refuse to immediately buy a loaf of bread or an apple babies (and, perhaps, and candy), your child immediately recorded in the unhappy orphan, and you assign the status of a wicked stepmother.
Give him a pacifier!This advice is also often possible to hear when the baby cries. Advisors do not care that the baby breastfed, and from the nipple may deteriorate bite. They are sure that crying - pacifier! All children have to suck it! Another masterpiece argument in its favor: it prevents the penetration of germs in the baby's mouth with it, he does not swallow the cold air.
Put it immediately! Well-wishers, unlike you always know how to dress the baby in the weather. Usually, they think the baby is dressed too easy, although there are those who believe that you have it Kuta. Extra cap in July, it never hurts - that look, wind chill, and, perhaps even approaching hurricane.
Do not shake it! Usually it disturbs hearted grandmother. They somehow think that if a child's swing, it may vomit, he became dizzy or happen concussion. And the fact that such cases in clinical practice has not yet been recorded, they are not comforting.
Do not carry it on your hands! From what you so often take him in his arms, he will grow up to indulge in selfish. A sling from wearing in "as Roma" ergo-backpack or kengurushki generally become invalid curve back and splayed thighs. And he was crying because "there it is inconvenient." The argument is that these devices are safe and comfortable for the baby and mother, they do not hear categorically.
Make him herbal baths! Any rash on the child's body - from food allergy to mosquito bites - is a lot of advice. You recommend soap, grated potatoes and holy water. You can also hear advice and make herbal bath with chamomile, and a succession of celandine. These herbs are really useful, but can dry the skin and cause an allergic reaction, so it is best to consult that best suits your child, with your doctor.
Breastfeed - drink milk! If your baby does not seem, according to advisers, fairly well-fed, so he did not have enough milk. Immediately begin to lure him, and themselves to improve lactation drink cow's milk. Actually it found that cow's milk on the milk supply has no effect, but use it in large quantities can cause bloating you and allergies in children. A lure grudnichka (if the pediatrician does not fix weak weight gain) up to 5-6 months and does not need to.
And be sure to ask, how to respond when your child makes comments strangers.
