No child who would not hurt, but one that happens twice a year, and others, as they say, do not get out of colds. Parents lead the kid to different doctors, pass numerous tests, buy expensive drugs, try a variety of ways strengthen the immune system, but the child is still ill... Can search for the cause of common diseases kid does not need his immunity, and mom and Dad?
Very often, parents do not want to think about the fact that any disease, there are different reasons for this: first, it is physiological - infections, viruses, weak immune system, and so on.. and the second - psychological. When it would seem, there is no reason for the frequent illnesses, and the child is ill. Many parents, having a child with a long way to doctors and not achieving results, lead the kid to a psychologist, knowing what to look for the cause of common diseases need here. Let's talk about fashion is now the subject - psychosomatic illnesses, t. e. the impact of psychological factors on the health of the child.
A small child is very keenly perceives and feels intuitively family atmosphere. For him it is very important emotional condition and mom and dad. Or rather for a healthy emotional state of the child is important supportive family atmosphere. Healthy and happy children grow up in families where the parents are happy, and vice versa. Of course, in happy families, sick children, but this is rare, and recovery is easier and faster.
Child as antenka - captures the mood of adults and passes them through. Good positive vibrations - a child happy. Negative, quarrel, increased tone - the kid is going through, she begins to suffer, hurt.
Many parents say, "yes, stop, the child can feel and understand, he's still a baby!". Yes, it's small, but it's great reads atmosphere in the family, and for this it is not necessary to be present when quarrels parents. The child feels that between father and mother there is something that he can not put it into words, experiencing fear, ill. And no matter how many years a child - 2 months or 16 years.
Besides parental quarrels, there are other factors that affect the child's health, psychosomatics consider some of the most frequent diseases of modern children.
Psychosomatics frequent illnesses child
Allergies in children, frequent bronchitis with obstruction, frequent bronchitis with allergic component, frequent pneumonia - a quarrel between the parents, family conflicts between parents and grandparents, as well as note - excessive guardianship of the child and the fear of parents for the child's health.
frequent ear infections - if your child has hurt the ears, it is a sign that the family often quarrel, he just can not hear them every day. Another reason - adults often abused child, he always hears accusations and negativity in your address.
Frequent illness neck - unspoken suffering, feelings of injustice, suppression of emotions, tears and feelings of the child, which he keeps to himself.
frequent coryza- internal tears, the child suffers psychologically because of some unpleasant situation - this may be an argument in family, or he feels that he is treated unfairly, pay little attention, often with children nedolyublennosti runny nose.
Frequent colds with indolent symptoms - mild fever, runny nose, sore throat - sick children, which is not enough attention on the part of parents or those who do not like to be in certain circumstances. For example: the child does not want to go to kindergarten or school, for whatever reason (afraid of getting a bad grade, do not like being bullied peers, and so on. d.), or the child forced to lead classes in the circle or the sports section, which he chose not to, and the parents, believing that it would be better for baby. A very common cause of common colds for children when the children do not get enough love and affection parents must agree, when a child is sick, all circling around it, paying attention, care - ie,.. give him what he needs every day and then stripped in everyday life. children get sick often in families where parents work long hours and are rarely at home. And his illness children try to draw attention to himself.
What do parents
Analyze what learned, draw the appropriate conclusions.
Naladte family relationships, remember that from a favorable atmosphere in the house, showing love, attention and care for her husband and child, directly affects the health and well-being of your baby.
The child does not need expensive toys, much more expensive for him everyday communication with Mom and Dad.
Find out what your child is afraid - children's fears cause of many diseases.
Stop too take care of the child, try to foresee all the dangers that can occur only in his way and worry about it for any reason, do not try to take everything under control, understand that this is simply impossible. Unnecessary worries and fear for the child is surrounded by his negative emotions, which on the contrary, "attract" the disease and failure. Always think positively.
In matters of education for flexibility exclude commanding tone, categorical in his judgments, shouting and physical punishment, look for ways how to agree with the child, explaining the situation and argue why you should do this or that in a particular case.
Listen to the views of the child, do not make forced to do what you think is good and right. Give your child a choice, remember that this is a man, small, but a person with their emotions, desires! This applies both to the fact that should not be forced to make to eat porridge to the last drop, through "nehochu", because it is useful, as well as freedom of choice, in which institution should act child.
Constantly tell your child that you love him, hug and kiss. This is for you, and so it is understandable that you love, and the child - no. He needs to hear "I love you" 100 times a day, it should be in your arms just like that, for no reason, 100 times a day. The child is important to hear and feel your love, do not hesitate to show their love to any girls or boys. Parental love - this is the main thing that can cure the child without drugs.
Peace in the family, the health of you and your children
You will be interested to know, as we are our emotions program ourselves to failure and disease.
