April 21, 2019 11:00Elena Lysenko
Child education
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From early childhood, it is necessary to teach the child to build personal boundaries. Parents need to take note of the phrase that you want to tell the child about the rules of personal sexual safety.
How to protect the child from sexual abuse, what should be the sexual safety rules? The first rule for parents - do not be shy to speak with the child at the "uncomfortable" topics. After a frank discussion, and the credibility of the parents - is the main protection for your child.
Phrases that parents should talk to their children about the rules of personal sexual safety:
1. Your body belongs only to you and no one else!
2. Do not hesitate to ask us any questions that you are interested in or concerned about your body, we will always help you and tell you.
3. Do not need to tolerate hugs and kisses if you are unpleasant, even from friends and relatives. If you do not want to be hugged and kissed, just say so.
4. If the actions of another person, a child or an adult, you do not like, you're hurt or uncomfortable, you need to say "no", "stop".
5. Nobody has the right to touch your genitals, except the doctor, if necessary, and then, in the presence of parents.
6. Nobody has the right to ask you to show your genitals or showing them to you. So you no one should (should not) show others your intimate zone.
7. Do not hesitate to call a spade intimate areas - women and girls - this is the vulva, men and boys - the penis. This is not something shameful, and the same part of your body, like an arm, leg, head or stomach.
8. Intimate zone cover undergarments.
Phrases that parents should talk to their children about the rules of personal sexual safety:
1. Your body belongs only to you and no one else!
2. Do not hesitate to ask us any questions that you are interested in or concerned about your body, we will always help you and tell you.
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3. Do not need to tolerate hugs and kisses if you are unpleasant, even from friends and relatives. If you do not want to be hugged and kissed, just say so.
4. If the actions of another person, a child or an adult, you do not like, you're hurt or uncomfortable, you need to say "no", "stop".
5. Nobody has the right to touch your genitals, except the doctor, if necessary, and then, in the presence of parents.
6. Nobody has the right to ask you to show your genitals or showing them to you. So you no one should (should not) show others your intimate zone.
7. Do not hesitate to call a spade intimate areas - women and girls - this is the vulva, men and boys - the penis. This is not something shameful, and the same part of your body, like an arm, leg, head or stomach.
8. Intimate zone cover undergarments.
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