The birth of a baby - a special event in the life of each family whose joyful commotion just want to share close relatives and friends. But the newly-made mom must be very accustomed to cope with his new schedule. Therefore, it is not in demand in the house to a family is not necessary with a newborn baby. But even if you have already been invited to visit, it is still necessary to take into account some of the nuances.
WARN IN ADVANCE. Firstly, do not plan on my first visit earlier than one week after the mother and baby's discharge from the hospital. It is unlikely that it will have power to receive guests, even the most desirable. And his visit to arrange it in advance, specifying the exact date and time of arrival.
Brief visit. Do not count on many "gatherings" to a young mother. The first visit, try to reduce to a minimum, because at this point many will want to congratulate Parents with this moving moment, and it is unlikely that mothers have enough time and effort to "long-playing" reception guests. If the child has started to act up - is a major signal to immediately leave the young parents, leaving them alone with the crumbs.
Useful gifts. When will the first time to go on a visit to the newborn, buy a gift for him - the parents will appreciate your gesture, but do not puzzle over the gift, it is better not hesitate to ask the parents of the crumbs that really would be appropriate to present at this period. Perhaps the suit, which you planned to present in their arsenal for twenty-five, but extra packing diapers would not stir.
Elementary hygiene. This elementary rule as washing hands (even if you do not plan to take the child in his arms) must comply with the mandatory, because the baby is very in this period is very sensitive to the environment and any "latent" infection can affect it. Also, in any case can not come to a cold or had just been ill. It is not advisable at first to lead themselves and young children, especially those who attend kindergarten. Perhaps the child is not sick, but is a carrier of a virus, such as influenza, which is extremely dangerous for the newborn.
TAKE tasty. Going to where the newly born baby, do not count on the usual meal. Hardly a young mom have time ready "vkusnyashek". Most likely, they themselves will be the first time to eat occasionally. Better you treat them with something delicious, taking with him a useful goodies.
Young parents. It is always appropriate to offer to help with your hand to young parents. For example, you can go for a walk with their older children, or if you trust, you can even ponyanchitsya with a newborn, while parents go about their business. You can even, if you are a very close friend, to offer young mom clean the house or cook dinner for the family.
Unsolicited advice. Perhaps you experienced parents and raised five children, but to give your opinion, less experienced mom any tips should be with extreme caution or not to give their all, while you're about it asked. Not every parent is perceived positively even the slightest criticism of their address.
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