Do you know the difference between children's and adult perception of time? For us adults, it moves, it runs much faster. Our adult day more dynamic, they have a lot of events like the puzzle pieces in 1000 parts. The child-events of "puzzles" less - woke up, washed up, went into the garden, ate, slept, played, mom I took - so kids tend to remember the strongest sense of the day, regardless of whether it is positive or not.
If crumb falls asleep sad, anxious or in tears, unpleasant aftertaste is not fading away, and settles in dark subconscious modicum of sense, "I am bad", "I do not like", "the world in which I live, not me kind. " Let will replay this scenario, especially because it is very simple.
Even if the day was full of pranks kid and quarrels with him, before going to bed, try to complete it on the positive. If you end the day positive, then tomorrow will begin on a positive note, and therefore the mood with which we wake up tomorrow will be good. For such a result quite a few good phrases and quiet little laugh before going to bed. These
8 questions that podytozhat passing day, will help to set yourself and a child on a quiet night and a good new day.♥ What have you got this afternoon were interesting (fun, funny)?
♥ What would you like to / would like to change this day?
♥ What surprised you today?
♥ What color is this day?
♥ What would you like / I want to do tomorrow?
♥ With whom would you like to spend it?
♥ What would you eat / I ate for breakfast tomorrow?
♥ Do you think that you dream last night?
By the way, it is not necessary to ask all the questions, especially if pipsqueak upset or, conversely, overexcited. Ask one or two, and they bring you closer, improve mood. You can add your questions to this collection, simplify or complicate them.
For example, a very small fit more simple questions, and the older kiddies like to reflect on their feelings, to dream. The most important thing in this "bedtime" the dialogue that you give your child to understand how it dear to you with all my thoughts, jokes and plans for tomorrow. These warm feelings wrapped soft cloud of love and give the most colorful dreams.
