Being a parent - a very important and responsible job, though not easy. What methods of upbringing can harm the child and should be banned?
You can act on a whim, and can read modern literature and advice of child psychologists, to raise the child properly. The upbringing of the child need to be extremely careful because at first glance, the most innocuous things can cause quite the opposite effect. So, what should be taboo in raising a child?
Make early mature
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Childhood - the most beautiful and carefree time in a person's life, so give the child to live it to the full. Do not do their adult child does not impose on him an additional responsibility, it causes irreparable psychological trauma. Adult, he still has time to become, but to go back to childhood, to experience these emotions, alas, no again.
Humiliate
Humiliation - it is not acceptable form of behavior, even an adult, let alone a child. If you allow this attitude to your child, then grow it in a bunch of complex, as his mind is not strengthened, and he will not be able to resist you. If you do not want to bring up a disabled adult, make sure that what you say to your child.
Read the long notation
Children do not perceive the long notation and educational conversations, most of them, they just do not hear, but simply ignored. It is especially important not to "educate" the child's hysterical, it is better to select a time when the baby is calm and is very compact and is available to explain why he was wrong.
Threaten
Threats and blackmail are only for a short time, but then you get a completely unexpected effect, the child not only to stop listening to you, but also to trust you, to see you in support.
Be inconsistent in words and actions
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Consistency in their words and actions - the basis of proper education. If you are banned yesterday, and today permitted the child dissolve and he understands that your words can easily be changed, so stop listening to you. It is also important that the same principles in education held all family members, that is, if the mother is not allowed to eat sweets, the pope also buys baby candy.
Force to make promises
This is pointless, especially with regards to children of preschool age. It can sincerely promise you anything, but it still does not do so, as you require.
Giperopekat
All parents worry about the children, but by overprotection is not any good, you just grow helpless and infantile child, who all his life will live on your orders. Let the children more freedom and independence.
In the humor
The child must have a clear framework and boundaries of this will be easier to live, and to him and to you, so line up certain rules and prohibitions. It is not necessary at all to indulge the child, otherwise he will manipulate you and on every occasion to roll hysteria.
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