Do you think that nowadays children are kidnapped only the very wealthy parents? And this trouble will never let you touch? Well, to be true, but we think that there will be no more than every parent to learn how protect your child from prying aunts and uncles who can harass them with a variety of intentions.
But let's first look at why kids still trust strangers? After all, we are so often told them not talk with anyone from outsiders.
Let's imagine: sweet aunt and poor hungry Kitten on the hands. "Look, sweetheart, who is this? I found this animal under the bench. And let's feed him together? ". Or uncle in a white coat, "I'm so sorry, Peter, but your mother had an accident. No, do not worry, all is well with her. Just now she is in the hospital and asked me to be as soon as possible to bring you to her. "
Unfortunately, after such phrases even the most cautious kid can lose vigilance. Unfortunately, thieves tend to operate very subtly. Usually, they are good psychologists, and it is very charming people who can inspire confidence. Remember how we, adults, can be difficult to divert their attention from the gypsy-fortune-teller or beggars with outstretched hands. So what do we want from their children?
They are much more trustful and kinder us. Statistics in this regard at all disappointing. Every year the country lost hundreds of children. And that tragedy will never happen in your family, explain to your child the rules of conduct in case of emergency. This simple safety may one day save his life.
- Tell your child that if followed by a very long car rides or it just seems to him suspicious, you need to quickly change direction. Suppose he turns onto other streets, coming out in a crowded place. And once in safety, immediately calls to parents.
- With a stranger do not need to hold any conversations. Once a stranger tries to talk, it is necessary to move away from him and began loudly but calmly say, "I do not know you. Get out, or I'll start to cry right now. " Typically, such a rebuff to frighten thief.
- You can never take from any extraneous things.Especially food and toys. Their aunts and uncles and entice children to her. They are specially selected the most beautiful, bright and tasty.
- Do not run in an empty alleyAnd where there are people.
- The strange situation in which parents would not close, and the stranger tries to force the child to use, You never need to cryOtherwise everyone will think that the baby is just naughty. To shout, and very loudly: "Help! It's not my mom (my dad)! I her (it) does not know! "Rehearse it with a child.
- Classics of the genre: if something threatens baby safety, let him learn to run into access and shout: "Fire" At this cry in any case, someone will react.
- If the child is still caught, he must try to escape. It is already possible all: beating, biting, scratching.
- EIf no one goes to the cries for help, you need to run to the dwelling house, grab any stone and throw right out the window. Even the most careful tenant will run out to deal with bullies. Explain to the child that mom and dad better pay for the broken glass, than to lose it. But the perpetrator of such an unexpected move, and noise may turn away.
- Besides my mother's and my father's room child must know a few mobile loved ones, to which it may apply in which case. For example, if the parents are for some reason unavailable.
Repeat these simple rules your child as often as possible. Do not allow him to open the doors of strangers and communicate with strangers. Let our children will be safe!
Also be sure to ask about any parental mistakes in the upbringing of the child spoil life
