Psychologists believe that same-sex children quarrel more often than heterosexual, because they are more closely related. More numerous quarrels - is in this case only a measure of intimacy.
The younger the children are, the more they will quarrel. But there are high chances that blizkovozrastnye gay children who quarrel very often, to the school will quarrel less frequently.
Much depends on the temperament of children. If you have two children with explosive character energetic and active temperament, it will be more fights. And if the family of two little phlegmatic, it will be quieter. Two little phlegmatic very rare. And one somehow does not occur often. And two of the winning ticket - almost never.
The next factor is the frequency of quarreling children in the family - seasonal climate. Let's look at the year as a whole. When would often quarrel our children, summer or winter? In winter, of course. In winter, loads more, and walk less. The coldest time of year, children get sick more often. These are things banal, obvious to most parents. But very few people associate the number of fights and the level of exercise and fresh air. The more time children spend in the open air - the less they "butt" for nothing.
So, this is often not at all in children, and in a situation in which those same kids are. For example, sick children who can not walk. It is clear that there is not in quarrels and not in character, and that they both move is not enough. In situations where the probability of quarreling increases due to circumstances beyond the circumstances of children, parents need to have a huge arsenal of tools for comfort, kids entertainment. Indeed, perhaps the most important thing in the conflicts - that your response is not strengthened quarrel.
Now list as promised, the most common causes of quarrels among children. Most of them can be thought, to prevent. Children preschool children tend to get tired. And they are very responsive to all sorts of things and they are easy to overwork. Here is one of the main qualities of parents intuitively feel a degree of fatigue your child feel how it sane. All your reactions must proceed from this, the degree of fatigue. Tired child can not educate. This applies not only to pre-school children, but school children and adolescents.
