Many parents of teenagers are surprised that their docile child became unmanageable, his behavior at times, according to parents, awful and goes beyond all limits of decency. But whether there is justification for this?
Transitional age of the child sometimes becomes a challenge for the whole family. The reasons for this may be many, but the negative residue in the shower mom, dads and grandparents can even stay after the teenager matures. What to do? It is best to understand why a teenager is behaving inappropriately, and what justification it may be.
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7 excuses the terrible behavior of adolescents
1. No longer a child but not yet an adult. The teenager may look old enough and it would seem he should be held personality. In fact, teens in the shower often small children who need of parental affection, attention and care.
2. Dreaminess. When the child grows up and reaches adolescence, he becomes very visionary and committed to their false ideals. He could spend a whole day in their dreams and plan for the future. And these dreams are very diverse.
3. Soul-searching. Becoming a teenager, the child more tries themselves to study, actively learns its positive and negative sides, the outside world, as well as trying to find his place in life.
4. The tendency to idealize. This feature of the teens is directly related to their reverie: the child may fantasize think of anything in particular, an ideal picture of the world, his family, friends and himself. And when the realities of life are not as ideal as we would like a teenager, it entails a great disappointment.
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5. Criticality. This feature is closely linked with adolescent reverie and a tendency to idealize. Growing up, the child begins to realize that he - not the best in the world, as it is assured parents, mother - not the most beautiful and intelligent, and my father - not the strongest. And this is very frustrating teenager.
6. Desire for solitude. Nature is so inherent to young people moving away from their parents and sought independence. To know ourselves and the world around, they need to spend a lot of time in solitude with himself. Some teens may be the whole day not even come out of his room. If the child had already quite developed intellectually and emotionally, the desire for solitude can reveal his hidden skills and talents. But it can also lead to depression and stealth.
7. Increased anxiety. Teenagers are very emotional and the emotions rather contradictory. Increased teenage anxiety can lead to all sorts of addiction or depression. Therefore, parents are very important to reassure and support their grown-up child and explain to him that his emotions - a consequence of the changes taking place with him.
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