When you know that your baby is five or six years, fell in love, usually at the mercy of different emotions: excitement, emotion, joy, and sometimes fear because you do not know how best to proceed in the current situation. Let's understand how to behave properly in this case.
Since this is the first anxious feeling that arose at your kid, then your hand is crucial to support the delicate little love and help him in his new status. Faced with care and understanding on the part of the parents, the child will begin to trust you more, and it certainly will benefit your relationship with him.
The first children's feelings
Children's love manifests itself in the form of a desire to make friends and spend time with the girl or boy who is much like. Little lovers begin to play role-playing games, where they - Mom and Dad or the bride and groom.
What emotions experiencing love baby
Think back to a time when you fell in love. What feelings do you overwhelmed? Numbness, fear, doubt, emotions, and at a meeting with the object of desire and all the land left underside feet. And it all happened with an adult, who has for the most part able to cope with their feelings and emotions.
Enamored kid feels about the same as you, but at the same time manage their emotions he still can not because of their age. So there may be a strong jealousy, anger and resentment, he is unlikely to curb.
How to behave parents
If your child has overcome the first love and he did not know what to do and what to do, then you as a caring parent, are obliged to help him understand the feelings.
When a child is angry or jealous, he does not understand what's wrong with him, talk to him, ask about the object of sympathy. If the "talk" difficult child, there are ways, how to do it and to talk to him frankly.
Perhaps you will bring your child the reasons for his behavior, and he gradually learns to control himself. This skill in the future it will be very useful.
Do not be afraid to ask about the child liked the girl or boy vending: this will allow you to determine the quality, are popular with your young romance.
What parents can not do
In order not to lose the trust of the child and not to disappoint him in any case do not discuss with outsiders, especially in his presence, of his sympathy. The exception is if the child himself wants to talk about it with others. At the same time, be serious in conversation, avoid ridicule and clarifications of who you liked.
Giving a child in love tips on how to behave with the object of sympathy, do not detract from its merits and does not indicate defects, not to cultivate the kid unnecessary complexes and doubts.
You will also be useful to know, how to stop children's whims, if a child became hysterical.
