Children grow up, start to socialize, learn to be a team of peers, which means that the quarrels and conflicts are inevitable. Should I intervene mom?
The reasons for conflict may be a mass, he broke toys to reluctance to share the very toy. Children can not just cry, they can fight, bite, throw in other children's toys. In any conflict should intervene, and when you just need to watch and give the child to resolve the situation?
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If there was a fight or brawl, no need to shout or to your child, let alone a stranger, take your child to the side, calm, and then found out what had happened.
If your baby is affected, for example, someone broke his toy or hit safely file a claim with the parents fighter. If the parents do not respond or lash out at you with shouting and rudeness, better get out of the area and try not to interfere with inappropriate people.
Often, the main disputes arise about toys and here is all depends on the age. Approximately one and a half years the child understands that it is his toys and does not want to share them, but at the same time, wants to play with someone else's toys. It is important to teach a child to gradually change. It's easy if you keep walking with the same children, when a child has friends, it is easier to compromise.
Do not take the pad or expensive new toys, remember that you can forget them, to lose, someone could accidentally break a toy. Do not force your child to share if he does not want.
Teach your child rules of behavior in advance, even before they get to the playground. For example, girls are not hurt, do not fight and do not attack first, learn to negotiate.
Important rules for parents
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- The child on the playground boring to watch, not to sit on the phone or reading a book, especially if you have a child conflict. Play around with the kids and spend quality time.
- Do not make the comments and do not comment on the behavior of other people, all addresses are the child's parents.
- Your bag must necessarily be pure water, peroxide or chlorhexidine, plaster and bandages, as on-site children are often traumatized.
- Teach your baby to avoid danger: swing, children, moves down from the hill, the road, cyclists, etc.
- Teach your baby to change the toys or defend their right not to give anything to anyone, unless he wants to.
- If the child is old enough, allow him to solve conflict situations, but be sure to watch to see if you need to intervene.
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