Dr. Komarovsky told why you can not yell at children

This time, a famous doctor explained why parents do not need scream on children.

Aggression

Psychologists have proven that a child whose voice is raised at the age of 4-5 is characterized by increased aggressiveness.

For example, he begins to argue with his parents, forcing them to scream even more, and at school he fights with his peers.

Uncertainty

As a result of constant crying, the child develops complexes. He begins to avoid responsibility and not believe in his own strength, because, according to the child, even when he tries, his parents still scream and are unhappy with him.

fears

The cry of the parents can provoke the appearance of fear in the baby.

It will become difficult for him to meet new people and join the team, and he will not be able to resolve conflict situations in his favor, because the cry of others will be a kind of trigger for him.

As you can see, screaming is really not an option. It can be difficult for parents to resist, this is true, when the child begins to be completely uncontrollable.

But for the sake of his future, you must cultivate such habits in yourself:

• make claims with justification
• if the emotions are too strong, wait with the conversation,
• apologize for those situations when the cause of discontent was not a child, but he also got it from you,
• don't use offensive words.

The child must understand that his parents love him, but the mistakes that everyone makes must be able to admit.

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