Dear women, the most important thing you need to understand right now is that a man does not have to spend 24 hours with you. hours a day, and he will not jump around you with compliments and confessions, and do not need it from him demand! Not everything depends on the man, but on you, almost 90%. It is you who create the microclimate in the family, it is the relationship in marriage that depends on you to a greater extent, take everything into your own hands, but be a little more cunning.
Cultivate your feelings
Men are rougher and less romantic by nature. Do you want tenderness, but it seems to you that your partner does not give it to you? And because of this, after the birth of a child, you switch all your attention to the baby? This is a very big mistake. A man may not reciprocate, not purr in your ear about his feelings, etc., but he sees your attitude towards him. So be gentle with him. You don’t have to switch all of yourself to the child, otherwise a man can go to another for tenderness. Be affectionate, soft and considerate with a man.
You can force a man to reciprocate, but you need to do this carefully. For example, say that you became happier after he complimented you, that you became happier after he kissed you, etc.
No negativity and nothing heavy
And the negative comes from the fact that a woman is very overtired. Therefore, it is important to monitor both your appearance and your emotional, mental and physical health. Do not bring negativity into the house from the outside, do not take revenge on a man for any problems that you have. Stop constantly sorting things out if you want to keep them good. And yet, about health, do not carry heavy things, but do not force a man to carry them for you. Forget "you must" and "you must", just ask for help affectionately, say that you can't do it without a man.
Be careful with requests
Feel the difference: “Darling, I can’t cope without you” and “I always have to do everything myself!”. In the second message, one feels humiliation, insult, reproach, and in the first, defenselessness, tenderness and respect for a man. Let's say your man works late but promised to fix a shelf in the kitchen. Do not pile problems on him from the threshold, first kiss, feed, let him rest, and then hint at help. And try to communicate with a man, even if the situation is quite tense, without anger and resentment.
Don't Lose Your Woman
It's not about looks, but looks are important too. The point is that you do not need to take full responsibility for the family, decide everything, be the main one in all matters. Relax and let the man act. Otherwise, at first he will oppose your supremacy, then he will reconcile, and then you will cease to be a woman for him. Let him play the male roles in the family, and you just be his beloved woman, tender and defenseless. Also, I'll take it here. A very important topic is intimacy. Never, neither from evil, nor from resentment, nor trying to humiliate a man, do not tell him that he is bad in bed, this is taboo. Believe me, a man will quickly find the woman who will admire him in bed.
What to do with stubbornness
Stubbornness can ruin a lot in a relationship. If a man is stubborn, you need to show cunning, and be able to get around him. No need to prove to him with foam at the mouth that he is wrong. Say differently: “Yes, you are right, but maybe we will try to do it differently” or “Yes, you are right, this is how it should be done.” When a man understands that you are moving in one direction, his stubbornness gradually dries up. And if you keep repeating: “no, you are wrong”, “no, we will do everything differently”, then you will fight like two sheep all your life. Less insist on your own, a man should be the head, and you should be the neck, but this does not mean that you should tell him how and what to do, act gently and cunningly.
Everything is only in your hands. It is in your hands how satisfied a man will be with your relationship, with himself and with you!
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