Now one of the ways to get acquainted with the opposite sex is communication on the Internet by correspondence. Of course, our grandparents also corresponded in the past, but these were paper letters, perhaps photos, sometimes they waited for answers for a very long period. Nowadays, everything is much simpler, the speed of the Internet allows you to write “Hi” in a matter of seconds, and in an hour to learn a lot about a person. Only now, someone needs such acquaintances for further building relationships, but for someone it’s just flirting. If your option is the first, and you do not want to get bogged down in virtual communication, then take the following steps.
Insist on a personal meeting
Your correspondence can be very long if you do not hint at a meeting. Set a certain limit for yourself, a time limit, how much you will communicate with a person only on the Internet. And then offer a meeting, if a person refers to employment or postpones your real acquaintance, do not flatter yourself, but simply stop all communication. Understand that if a person does not want a personal meeting, then he does not want anything serious from your communication.
Nothing very personal
You should not send your intimate photos to a new acquaintance, ordinary ones - yes, please, but you should not send a half-naked body. Perhaps, of course, you communicate for a long time, and trust the person, you are sure that your intimate photos will not go beyond his eyes. But this can lead to the fact that you will remain in online communication.
You can communicate online for a long time only with a person with whom you had a relationship in reality
You don't need to complicate your life. If you have met a man before, live close to each other, then you have a much greater chance of meeting, but long-term communication, for example, with non-residents or foreigners, is too much. If you do not plan to move to his city / country or vice versa, then what is the point in your daily correspondence?
Don't get too close
Let all your spiritual conversations remain until the moment of the meeting. There is no need to tell too personal things about yourself, although sometimes you want to share something intimate with a complete stranger. However, some details of your life may, on the contrary, strongly repel a person from you, and he will not rush to meet you in real life.
Skip his questions
If a man starts asking you too many personal questions, just don't answer them. Say that before the meeting you are not ready to talk about anything so personal. This is how you show him your interest in your meeting, and also let him understand that you are not going to get stuck in online communication.
Be more proactive
If the man did not agree to the first meeting after your proposal, repeat your desire in a couple of weeks. Do not be afraid to seem intrusive, on the contrary, a man will immediately understand that simple correspondence is not enough for you.
speak directly
If you do not need only virtual relationships, then immediately indicate your position, so as not to waste time, speak directly.
Be serious
You must make your plans clear. Either you meet in reality, or you leave, and there is no third way. Show your seriousness, respect yourself. Do not think that you need to wait a little longer, he will fall in love, and will definitely meet you in reality. If a person is adequate, then it will not be difficult for him to meet with you just to have a cup of coffee. But those who are unsure of themselves are hiding in the network, those who are not going to build a serious relationship, as well as those who are married or in connection with other women.
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