Many men, having parted with a woman, begin to behave ugly. They pour mud on their former, tell the details of their intimate life and often lie about a lot. But women are good too. Well, you broke up, love has passed, forget it and live on. But no, they stick so that it’s hard to come off, then they scribble sms about love when they’re drunk. Dear women, remember: you are above all this! Where is your pride, self-love and confidence? It's time to stop doing these things to your exes!
Don't let go and throw tantrums
Immediately after the breakup, it seems to women that this is some kind of joke, that everything will return to its place. Then comes the realization that nothing is changing, and bitter tears begin for the best and most desired man. Calls and declarations of love begin, pleas to start all over again, screams out of the blue, surveillance. But it is important to leave the relationship with dignity and pride! Stop, let go. There will be more happiness in your life!
follow the former
Who is he with, where is he, how long was he at work, whom did he give a ride, who did he see and what did he talk about. After all, you probably have mutual friends whom you often torture, finding out all the details of your ex's life without you. You combed through all his social networks, you like him, comment on the photo. You can call, write, start asking something. All just so that he does not forget about you. Do you think that's how you get it back? On the contrary, you will become for him like a bone in his throat.
Make friends with your ex's friends
You hated his best friend, his work colleagues always made you sick, but now, after your breakup, they suddenly became very interesting to you. Of course, because through them you can begin to control the life of the former, follow him, and there it may turn out to cross paths at general parties.
Attract the attention of an ex
What women just don’t go to, just to touch the former and make him draw attention to themselves. Most often, entire photo shoots for a social network begin. Half-naked, with other men, at fun parties, again with his friends. Unfortunately, all these gestures, when the relationship has already come to naught, are completely meaningless and will not lead to anything worthwhile.
Interfering with the privacy of an ex
Were friends with his mother and continue to visit her? Meet in the comments under his photo in the social network? Come to where he often goes? Calm down, finally, your behavior is simply hysterical! Don't you have other things to do, how to climb into someone else's life?
Texting while drunk
Alcohol is generally a harmful and nasty thing, and very often it becomes the reason that women begin to write to their ex. And what can you write worthwhile while drunk? Either insult or tearfully beg to come back! Do not disgrace!
Chase his new passion
In the hope of opening her eyes to him, to prove that you are better and that he does not love her, and maybe even with some evil intentions, including punishing the “homeowner”.
Arrange a showdown with him
He bought a new car, changed jobs, moved, got married, and you'll be the last to know? What an injustice. Indeed, you are his... ex! Why should he report to you about the changes in his life? On what basis do you arrange a showdown with him? You no longer have the right to make any claims to him!
pretend you didn't break up
Waiting for him to return is pointless. Keep posting old photos with him on the social network is stupid. Telling everyone stories that you are together, although everyone knows that this is not so, is ridiculous!
No matter how painful it is, accept with dignity the parting with a man, even if you really love him. And yet, as experience shows, it’s better to hide, be restrained, live your life on, as if nothing had happened, communicate with friends, make acquaintances, and the former will become more active!
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