The Internet is replete with articles that a woman is better at 40 than at 20, and they give a lot of pluses to this opinion. And many women fall for it! I don’t have the right to prove anything to anyone, but…
Indeed, I once saw an article on the World Wide Web just on this topic. They actually wrote that a woman at 40 is better than a girl at 20, and they cited many competitive advantages. Among them, that women at 40 are much more experienced, more comfortable, they do not need to be looked after, they know what they want from life, they are smarter and more accommodating. I, smoothly approaching the age of forty, should have read this article and take all such characteristics as a compliment. But after reading it, I had a strange, nasty feeling. It was like I was being used for something, but I don't know why.
Thinking about what I read for a long time, I suddenly realized that we women are constantly trying to scare each other. It’s as if we are being pitted against each other, and then we spend our time on stupid things, trying to prove to others, and to ourselves, that we are no worse, but better than someone else.
Those who are older are scared of the young. Like, ladies over 40 should certainly be afraid of yesterday's schoolgirls with a young body and long hair. They have everything ahead of them, they are fresh, charming, seductive, with plump lips and long cilia. You can’t sit still, because men will choose the young ones, while those who are 40+ pretend to be impregnable queens. You have to quickly agree to hugs and kisses, and at the same time cook borscht in order to somehow compensate for your “not youth”.
So, those who are older scared. Now it is the turn of young princesses, they are also constantly kept in good shape on the Internet so as not to relax. They write that it’s enough to make increased demands on men, to increase their worth, and to force them to take care of themselves. Like nearby, literally a few steps away, your men are waiting for more experienced, smart and not going overboard women 40+, who also know how to cook borscht, and are always happy to stay with a man for the night without bouquets and gifts.
Now someone will say: all this is such nonsense! But it is impossible to deny the fact that many women are all being led to this. As a result, older women try to urgently rejuvenate themselves as soon as they see at least one wrinkle in the mirror. And young ladies cling to the first men they come across, as if jumping into the last car, until the train really leaves, that is, while they are still young and elastic.
It looks like there is some sort of trade going on. And the men in this trade are the buyers, and the women are the sellers. As in the market, that's the truth. When a buyer praises another seller's product, saying that it is tastier, more convenient and cheaper. And you have to cut the price. But, dear girls, do you and I need this struggle and trade?
Yes, of course, no one wants to grow old, but personally, I think that you need to try to love yourself and accept yourself at any age! Any age is beautiful in its own way! I don't want to be better than someone else, more comfortable than someone else, more interesting than someone else, cheaper than someone else! I do not want! I will not prove my relevance. Well, that's stupid. Each person has their own advantages. I never tried to show off my mind and experience in front of young girls, and never, being myself young special, did not try to show ladies over 40 that I am much juicier and younger, and like me more men.
And by the way, as for men. If a man is loving, he will not treat his woman as a “stale” product, and will quickly look for something fresher for himself. And if he is unloving, then well, good riddance, and it doesn’t matter how old you are 20, 40 or 80 ...
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