Now in her 40s, Tatiana looks back at her past life and shudders in horror. Outbursts of jealousy of her husband Sergei were terrifying, the woman was sometimes very scared.
Tatyana could not meet with her friends, she left the house only after warning her husband about it. She accounted for her every step: where she was, with whom she saw, how long they talked. Even when Tatyana made an appointment with a doctor, she was obliged to report to Sergei: to which one, with what complaints, when the appointment, what time and how long she would spend there.
Every day it got worse. Sergei did not raise his hand to his wife, but everything went towards this. And she suddenly found out that she was pregnant. It would seem that she should fly and tell her husband about such news, but Tatyana was afraid. She was afraid that Sergey would think that she had cheated on him, that she would calculate the day, hour, minute when the woman was able to get pregnant. With terrible thoughts in her head, she decided to go to her mother-in-law and tell about everything.
Elena Ivanovna is a strict person, but she met Tatyana as if she were her own daughter. After listening carefully to her daughter-in-law, she began her story. It turns out that Sergei was jealous not only of Tatyana. In childhood, when his little sister was born, he became jealous of her parents. He waited for the right opportunity to hit her, insult her, provoke her to some actions, framed her, blaming some of his actions on her. And once he tried to set fire to the bed in which the girl slept! Miraculously, the parents returned home on time, otherwise it is not known how the matter would have ended.
And at school, Sergei behaved like that. He studied well, but when the same as him, good students and excellent students performed the task of the teacher better than him, he was very angry, and then did something to his classmate. Could beat, set up, tear clothes.
Sergei was taken to psychologists, put under control of the school. The teaching staff did not understand why such a smart and responsible boy, at the same time also cruel. Years passed, the parents did not hear anything about Sergey's actions, but, most likely, at the institute he also showed himself to be jealous. And so, when he met Tatyana, all his jealousy spread exclusively to her.
It became very difficult for the woman to speak, and she advised:
- Divorce him, Tanya. I'm afraid for you, you won't be happy with him. Run girl! I thought that he changed, fell in love with you, no, jealousy is stronger than his love. I'm sorry that I didn't tell you anything before, I hoped that all this was left in the distant past.
On the same day, Tatyana called her mother, told everything, she advised her to go to her aunt in another city. Tatyana contacted a relative, and she, of course, invited her niece to her place, especially since she lived alone in a very large house.
It is very good that in the age of technology you can order a ticket directly via the Internet, which Tatyana did. For two days she got to her aunt, and then again, using the Internet, she filed for divorce and signed her electronically.
Surprisingly, Sergei did not look for her. Not once in 15 years did she hear about him, she raised her Marinka herself. Unfortunately, I could not build personal relationships with anyone, because it took me a long time to come to my senses.
Just get away from jealous people. Who knows what her husband did with Tatyana? Suddenly he would become jealous of her little daughter, and would harm her. The mother-in-law sends money to her granddaughter once a year. She came once, but asked not to be introduced as her own grandmother. Tatyana occasionally sends her photos of Marishka.
Sergey got married again and went to live in another country. What happened to him and how - no one knows, and does not particularly want to know.
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