Most people prefer to judge others because they just have a hard time soaping. Probably, if a book were written based on my thoughts or, God forbid, a film was made, I definitely wouldn’t read it and wouldn’t watch it. But there are people who are so true to their thoughts, and do not allow someone to think not like them, but differently. Like, if you're not with me, then you're against me?
Yes, not all people are suitable to communicate with someone. According to Mikhail Zhvanetsky, there are types of people who are best avoided. Let them boil themselves in their own porridge. You know, I completely agree with this opinion, not everyone is worthy to share their thoughts, ideas, experiences with them. Some are very hard. You told them: “I am so-and-so ...”, and they answered: “No, it’s not necessary, listen as it should.”
Who better to stay away from!
From people with pattern thinking
How to distinguish a thinking person from a person with stereotyped thinking? Very simple. A thinking person, even if he is very smart, well-read, educated, he will always doubt. He will be silent, instead of proving his opinion with foam at the mouth. He will not scandalize and impose something on someone, he respects the opinions of others.
And what about a person with pattern thinking? He, on the contrary, will always defend his point of view, which is not his at all, he heard it somewhere or read, well, or picked up somewhere else, and now considers himself smart, right, and the rest for him, who thinks otherwise, fools.
From people with negative thinking
There is a category of people who are very fond of complaining about their lives. They have problems all around. Failures, but they certainly get out of them, and then they get there again for unknown reasons. Employers do not pay, friends do not appreciate, bricks from the roof fall only on their heads, enemies are all around, everyone is deceiving them, trying to use them. I think there is clearly some kind of deviation on the head. Well, do you like to drive yourself with negative thoughts about your problems, please! Why torture others with your negativity?
From people who constantly brag
When a person tirelessly boasts of his achievements, income, appearance, he becomes like a rooster. Here was my story. I went on business to another city, and my companion was a man of about 60 years old. He began to tirelessly tell me how handsome he was at my age, how attractive he looked. He began to insist that I would definitely fall in love with him in those years. I just nodded. But the man, perhaps, was not enough. He took out his old photo from his passport, still black and white, and there he was somewhere in his 30s.
He again began to insist that here he looked very seductive. I replied that yes, he was quite an interesting man. But he was so hooked by the word "was" that he decided to tell me how there were always crowds of women around him, trying to drag him into bed and steal his heart. And he was smart, and rich, and sociable, everyone adored him, and that I should almost regret that I was born at the wrong time. Barely made it to my station!
From annoying and arrogant people
Although they say that arrogance is the second happiness, I would argue with that. Personally, impudent people just discourage me, but they don’t charm me in any way. With them stuffy, sickening, there is some kind of Spanish shame. How can one respect, and how can one communicate with such types? No, let them go away.
Do you agree with the opinion of the famous satirist?
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