As if the child was adapting to the child's cage - from time to time she protested all the same and did not want to go there.
What causes such hatred to the point of a childish garden? Chastkovo tse v_dbuvaєtsya through pardons of grown-ups.
1. A little too soon
Children are greedy not to like to hurry, they stink for a long time to choose clothes, they want to hurry up to sleep. It’s like the nerves of the father are fluttering around a lot - the cage begins to associate with experiences, nervousness of moms and tata, scandals through those who want to go to sleep.
What work? I saw enough time at the rankings, so that I didn’t have to constantly push the child and charge all this with stress.
2. Irregular child care
If mom doesn’t work, or if she periodically comes to the aid of grandma-didus, then seeing a child in a kindergarten can be interrupted. For example, it became a Skoda to wake up - they left me at home, my grandmother came - they stopped me at home. Give these "walking" days, if the child is sick. And as a result, all the adaptation needs to be done in the beginning.
What work? Drive at the kindergarten every day for a vine of ailments. Do not succumb to the vlasnіy lіnоshchі or to the child's thread.
3. Negative installations
If you see a child in a childish garden, then go out by itself, so you don’t like to go there. For example, tell them that in the garden they won’t “baby” with him, that there “you’ll get to eat what to give,” the garden will be without tata and mami "and so on. As a result, the child's kindergarten becomes a stingy miss, why don't you have a father, everything spit on you and constantly stun you robiti, otherwise it's dility toys.
What work? Talk more positively about the children's garden: there are a lot of toys there, fun friends too.4. Negative comments about the supporters of that group
Even if you are a child, you allow yourself to be nasty about the caretakers, other children and theirs batkіv - then the child remembers everything well, and she develops an enmity that all the bad things are in the garden filthy. And you can easily pass on your words, chatting with a kindergarten.
What work? Hang your dissatisfaction over the presence of a child.
5. "English" look
If you are trying to get out of the child's cage so that the child does not see the moment itself, then work it only harder. So, it’s possible for the little one to cry, saying goodbye to you, but step by step it adapts to everything. And if you get better, then you’ll have to say hello, that you’ve been deprived of yoga forever - it’s a lot more stress for a child.
What work? Start the rituals of farewell and welcome. You see one when you go out of the garden, the other when you take the baby. It is important for those who, even more, work with a smile, and not weep, otherwise we will cry in disguise. Like a mother laughs, for a baby it’s a signal that everything is good.You will also read the following:
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