The Japanese live a long time, while they also remain young and cheerful for a very long time, while maintaining spiritual harmony. Of course, here the reason may be in a certain climate, and in nutrition, and in lifestyle. But today I want to talk about the rules of life that the people of Japan adhere to for peace of mind and their well-being. I think, following them, you can rethink a lot, and learn how to live normally, and not exist!
Do not wish for big changes for the better
The Japanese are sure that big changes can lead to many misfortunes. And, by the way, on this occasion there is one more of their opinions that if a person constantly has some minor troubles, then life has simply crushed some one big trouble into them. Therefore, you should not complain, and you should not wish for something beyond the beautiful and the best.
You can't spoil a child
Japanese parents are sure that pampering a child is tantamount to just leaving him. It is clear that we want only the best for our children, and sometimes we really want to give them everything that we might not have had in childhood. But it’s worth thinking a thousand times before spoiling children a lot, perhaps you are only making them worse, and they will grow up in spoiled, irresponsible and ungrateful adults who believe that everything in this life should fall to their legs.
No need to plan for the future
Well, for tomorrow, and for the near future - why not, but of course, it’s not worth talking with confidence about your distant future. Who can know how fate will turn out, because something can go completely wrong, and then disappointment is inevitable.
Don't want easy money
Money can only be earned, and any other means of enrichment will not bring happiness. Money that is obtained dishonestly can not only disappear like a cloud, but also entail a lot of trouble and sorrow. I have a story about this about my classmate. We studied together, but then she met the son of a wealthy businessman, and decided to leave the institute. Everyone dissuaded her, but she decided to choose an easy path for herself. Of course, they envied her and were amazed at how she managed to grab such a tasty “piece”. But then the business went downhill, the guy became poor, could not satisfy the needs of his bride, and she was left without money and without education.
You shouldn't relax
It's not about never relaxing or resting at all. It's just that many, having received some kind of cash payments or having reached some heights, fold their hands, believing that now everything will be decided by itself. But, unfortunately, this does not happen. If a person wants to live well, he needs to work, grow, develop, and not sit idle!
Appreciate those who appreciate you
And this, in my opinion, is a fairly simple rule, but, unfortunately, people are sometimes so possessed by pride that they can put their own interests above the interests and feelings of others, to their detriment. You should always appreciate those who appreciate and love you, to respond with respect for respect. And then it turns out that you will lose a person, and you will burst into tears. How many people are now who do not appreciate a good relationship with themselves, but look at others, looking for themselves someone "better", do not appreciate the good attitude of relatives, do not respect those who have something for them does.
These rules really help to find spiritual harmony!
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