How many envious people are around, you achieve something on your own, you go to your goal, no one and you don’t do anything wrong, but they hate you behind your back, because this is how everything turns out for you well. It's sad. But a strong woman would never behave like that.
Women are certainly beautiful creatures, however, they also find ways to humiliate each other, instead of being inspired by other people's actions and achievements, instead of inspiring others!
Of course, society itself inspires us that we are all rivals, competitors, therefore, why share with someone, inspire someone then? Women fight with other women for a man's favor, or for a good job. There is so little around real female friendship without envy, anger and humiliation, very little.
Some women are sure that there will not be enough space for everyone, and therefore they arrange a real fight for "a place in the sun." They humiliate, trample, assert themselves at the expense of others, if only to rise up themselves!
A strong woman does not include herself in the general crowd of the like. And it is quite natural for her to inspire other women, and be inspired by other, more successful women. By the way, women become much stronger when they go forward together, and not alone!
Around women, there have always been, and probably will be, a lot of all kinds of stereotypes, and much more is expected of them. It must be here, it must be here, and it must be there too. And after all, all this can be fought, but not alone, but with a whole group of smart and strong women.
But why do we refuse to help each other? Why do we look for support in men, and not in each other?
Very often, the success of one woman began to inspire the rest of the fair sex. Don't you have a female who also inspires you? Maybe your mother, sister, girlfriend, work colleague, or maybe one of the stars of show business? Why don't you become one of them, one of those strong women?
I think all this is due to the fact that you have repeatedly faced humiliation, deceit and the desire of other women to compete with you. Remember how you felt? Would it really be worse for you if some strong woman helped you at such moments?
Of course, you would really like someone to help you. Yes, men could do this, and that's good, but there is nothing stronger and better when it is women who help women!
Why do we insult and humiliate other women? What does it give us that we are constantly competing and trying to prove that we are better, smarter, happier, more successful?
Yes, I also sometimes encountered rather unpleasant comments coming from the lips of women, for example, about my mental abilities or appearance. Are you familiar with this? Personally, I always knew in the depths of my soul that all these comments flew out of their mouths only because those women themselves had some kind of complexes and self-doubt.
And the most stupid and, perhaps, the worst quarrel between women is because of men. What for? It looks so pathetic! No man is worthy of two women arguing over him. You are not better, even if you fit some of the standards of a certain man.
We women are very strong, we are not the weaker sex, we can do as much as men cannot. But our problem is only one thing - we do not know how to be friends purely, without competing and without humiliating each other. It's time to change! Compliment each other, inspire each other. And you can move mountains!
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