This is true: a woman who knows everything, always and about everything, simply cannot be married. She will say that it’s just that no one is worthy of her, that around the men they have deteriorated, crushed, and in general, she doesn’t need a man, but in fact, no one needs her like that.
I know one such woman. In fact, I only met her this year. Masha is 40 years old, she is a careerist and an incredible beauty. She achieved everything herself, she has 2 towers, her own apartment, a car, she looks much younger than her years, she dresses very stylishly and fashionably, she knows how to cook well, but she is alone. It would seem, well, here she is, dear men, an ideal woman in every respect, but this is only in appearance. And I realized this when I started talking with Masha. We were introduced by mutual friends, and after 20 minutes I wanted to quickly run home from the mini-party.
And the thing is that it was simply impossible to communicate with Masha. Of course, I am delighted that she is so smart and knows so much. But she interrupted everyone and everyone, did not allow her to ask the question to the end, and immediately answered it, and sometimes not even the one she was asked. She corrected everyone, inserted quotes from smart people, spoke in such a voice as if she were some kind of queen.
Her friends are used to her, they even call her Google, because she knows everything. It is probably interesting to chat with her when you drink, as if you are listening to some news or interesting stories from her mouth. And in other situations, it is simply impossible to take out such a woman who knows everything about everything. It's just too much, too much, and it's a lot of pressure.
She has a reason to be. All her life she heard from her father that she should be better. Dad praised her only when she brought good grades, achieved something, deserved something. It was he who advised her to get a second education, and it seems like it’s even not bad in our time, but did Masha herself want this? No, of course not, but if she refused, dad would be very angry, upset, would be dissatisfied.
Dad is no longer alive for a long time, and Masha, out of habit, tries everything. She is not angry with her father, on the contrary, she says that if it were not for him, if he did not demand from her, if he did not direct her in the right direction, she would not have achieved everything that she has.
Masha was married, though only a year, she has no children. She didn’t understand why her husband left, but he quickly found himself another, got married, and has been happily married for 10 years, raising three children.
When Masha begins to communicate with men, she immediately attacks them. She begins to argue, evaluate, upset, ask questions with some tricks, to which it is even difficult to find an answer. And all this she says with such an arrogant expression on her face, as if in front of her is some kind of nonentity, and she is the smartest in the world.
Men do not like such women. Firstly, no one takes out a woman with a "big" brain, secondly, constant reproaches and corrections bother, thirdly, you constantly need to correspond to her in order not to feel like an insignificance, and at the same time admire her brilliant mind and achievements. With such a difficult, no affection, weakness, tenderness. With her, as if with a teacher who ruthlessly puts all deuces.
Men love not the very best, but real, perhaps vulnerable, deep, open, those who are able to love and accept love. But Masha cannot love anyone, pain has been living in her heart for many years. She tried to become the best, the smartest, she probably did it well, but she never found female happiness. Although she sincerely hopes that someday she will meet the very one who will love her for who she is.
This is true: a woman who knows everything, always and about everything, simply cannot be married. She will say that it’s just that no one is worthy of her, that around the men they have deteriorated, crushed, and in general, she doesn’t need a man, but in fact, no one needs her like that.
I know one such woman. In fact, I only met her this year. Masha is 40 years old, she is a careerist and an incredible beauty. She achieved everything herself, she has 2 towers, her own apartment, a car, she looks much younger than her years, she dresses very stylishly and fashionably, she knows how to cook well, but she is alone. It would seem, well, here she is, dear men, an ideal woman in every respect, but this is only in appearance. And I realized this when I started talking with Masha. We were introduced by mutual friends, and after 20 minutes I wanted to quickly run home from the mini-party.
And the thing is that it was simply impossible to communicate with Masha. Of course, I am delighted that she is so smart and knows so much. But she interrupted everyone and everyone, did not allow her to ask the question to the end, and immediately answered it, and sometimes not even the one she was asked. She corrected everyone, inserted quotes from smart people, spoke in such a voice as if she were some kind of queen.
Her friends are used to her, they even call her Google, because she knows everything. It is probably interesting to chat with her when you drink, as if you are listening to some news or interesting stories from her mouth. And in other situations, it is simply impossible to take out such a woman who knows everything about everything. It's just too much, too much, and it's a lot of pressure.
She has a reason to be. All her life she heard from her father that she should be better. Dad praised her only when she brought good grades, achieved something, deserved something. It was he who advised her to get a second education, and it seems like it’s even not bad in our time, but did Masha herself want this? No, of course not, but if she refused, dad would be very angry, upset, would be dissatisfied.
Dad is no longer alive for a long time, and Masha, out of habit, tries everything. She is not angry with her father, on the contrary, she says that if it were not for him, if he did not demand from her, if he did not direct her in the right direction, she would not have achieved everything that she has.
Masha was married, though only a year, she has no children. She didn’t understand why her husband left, but he quickly found himself another, got married, and has been happily married for 10 years, raising three children.
When Masha begins to communicate with men, she immediately attacks them. She begins to argue, evaluate, upset, ask questions with some tricks, to which it is even difficult to find an answer. And all this she says with such an arrogant expression on her face, as if in front of her is some kind of nonentity, and she is the smartest in the world.
Men do not like such women. Firstly, no one takes out a woman with a "big" brain, secondly, constant reproaches and corrections bother, thirdly, you constantly need to correspond to her in order not to feel like an insignificance, and at the same time admire her brilliant mind and achievements. With such a difficult, no affection, weakness, tenderness. With her, as if with a teacher who ruthlessly puts all deuces.
Men love not the very best, but real, perhaps vulnerable, deep, open, those who are able to love and accept love. But Masha cannot love anyone, pain has been living in her heart for many years. She tried to become the best, the smartest, she probably did it well, but she never found female happiness. Although she sincerely hopes that someday she will meet the very one who will love her for who she is.
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