Sometimes it’s impossible to immediately understand that you are in an unhealthy relationship. It seems that there are no strong quarrels, it seems that you sleep in the same bed, share dinner together, raise children, but still there is some nasty feeling in your heart that something is wrong. It all starts with subtle changes in human behavior, over time, these very changes begin to kill feelings, leading the couple to part.
There are signs that you are in an unhealthy relationship and should not be ignored:
You lack physical intimacy
Although they say that relationships are not based on sex, it cannot be denied that it is an integral part of a happy union. But on it alone, too, "you won't go far." So, one of the signs that your relationship is unhealthy is the lack of physical intimacy. By the way, a good intimate life helps to get rid of stress, strengthens relationships, improves mood, and has a very positive effect on the relationship between a man and a woman.
If you and your partner do not make love, then either your intimate life is boring to you, what else can be fixed by adding variety to it, or something is really wrong with you. When there is no desire for each other, this is not good! In addition, if there are no kisses, hugs, stroking and touching in a couple, partners begin to move away from each other.
You have communication problems
Another clear sign that something is wrong with your relationship is your lack of normal communication. Here comes the husband from work, has dinner, and sits down at the computer or at the phone. You are doing your own business, housekeeping. There is no communication between you, as if you have nothing to talk about. And partners should always have the opportunity to talk to each other, share experiences, some news, and at the same time they should not be afraid of condemnation.
If you have constant quarrels, you cannot find a compromise on some issues, you resolve conflicts not peacefully, but turning to personalities, you do not show concern for each other, break down because of the little things at each other, annoy each other and you absolutely do not care how the day went with your loved one, then you are definitely in an unhealthy relationship.
Emotional detachment between you
Many couples also often face such a problem in relationships. Emotional intimacy is essential! The closer this connection between you, the easier it is for you to show your vulnerabilities. If you feel that your partner has pulled away from you emotionally, know that this may push him to cheat. And then it is unlikely that it will be possible to fix something.
Strong healthy relationships are built, including friendship between a man and a woman. If partners see their soulmate as their best friend, then they become much happier in marriage. Therefore, in case of emotional detachment, you need to act, because this is a very disturbing sign that your relationship is going to the end. Let's say that before your partner enjoyed going to some events with you and your friends, and now prefers to stay at home while you are resting, this may indicate that he has moved away from you in emotionally.
Or another sign of emotional distance. Before, your partner was very jealous of men, but now he calmly reacts when he finds out that you go to drink coffee in a cafe with your ex.
Such problems are solvable if the partners want to maintain the relationship. You need to work on relationships, you can go to a psychologist to understand the reasons for such detachment and unwillingness to communicate, sleep together, share something. But you should also be prepared for the fact that this is still an unhealthy relationship, the end of which is obvious.
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