When choosing a life partner, girls are most often guided by feelings. Bathed in love, they do not notice the shortcomings and dangerous bells that indicate that in the future this person can literally ruin her life.
In this article I would like to describe the types of the most destructive people.
And so, for convenience, I will write a list of "the most dangerous criminals of love":
1. He rushes things, is always there and cannot live a day without you.
All in all, very nice, isn't it?
But, look at the behavior of this man. Is he jealous? Does he control your actions? Does it violate your boundaries and personal space? Does he understand when you say no?
The danger of such people is that they are gradually rubbed into trust, blur the boundaries between you and gradually become your world. First you lose your interests, then friends, because he needs you to always be there and belong only to him.
Still flattering, isn't it?
Then he sets you up against your parents, tries to suppress your will, to convince you that without him you are no one and nothing is capable of.
At first, such a relationship seems wonderful, but after a while you will find yourself at the mercy of this person, and getting out of his clutches will be oh, how not easy!
2. He is not ready for a relationship, for various reasons, but he loves you.
This is a challenge, I really want to become the one for which he will be ready.
Watch the behavior of this man. He says he loves, but does he back it up with actions? Does he waste time with you? Does he support you? Are your feelings important to him? Or is he just talking about love?
The danger of such a relationship is that initially you get into a relationship where your role is secondary. You are not sure about the future, you do not understand what this relationship will lead to and you cannot make plans, because the person you have chosen is not ready.
Any of your attempts to move the relationship will be interrupted by the phrase: I'm not ready.
You can wait for many years, and end up with a broken trough with a broken heart. At the same time, you will be sorry to leave the man in whom you have invested a lot of time and effort. Getting out of a relationship is harder than it looks.
3. He is married
Well, this is a classic. The wife is an infection, and you are a miracle. But I can't get away from her.
Analysis is not needed here, only one point is important here - when a man does not love his wife, he leaves her and builds his life further. Even if they have children, she is sick and so on, this is not a reason to play a double game.
An adult man, who really came to the conclusion that the relationship with his wife can no longer be saved, goes and files for divorce. He leaves his wife, solves all the problems that may be and starts other relationships. And all these stories about the fact that now is not the time - fairy tales. A man sits on two chairs and everything suits him. Do not fall into this trap, such relationships bring pain, and even more painful when a person ultimately chooses a family.
The danger of such a relationship is that you can not only remain out of work, but that you will become his toy for many years, without the opportunity to leave him and build your life.
Girls, love yourself and don't let men disrespect you. The value system in this case is the same: healthy relationships are love and respect, and not using each other for any purpose.
