Relationships are definitely not easy for both men and women. Only what is difficult for us, men sometimes do not understand. But men also have their own problems. And they shared with us what is the most difficult thing for them in a relationship.
“It is sometimes very difficult for me to understand what my woman really thinks. For example, I don’t understand if she likes me or not.”
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“When I met my soul mate, I thought that our love would carry on until old age. But after 10 years of marriage, we broke up. Now I'm 35, and the thought of having to start all over again drives me crazy. I no longer have the strength, desire, or energy to do so.”
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“I can’t find a true soul mate. I am so annoyed by this widespread optimism, when they try to convince me that my time has not yet come, and I will someday meet the same one. Of course, I understand that even purely theoretically, I may someday find a mate for myself, but I still understand that everything will not always go smoothly with a woman. There will be a lot of deep incompatibilities.”
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“I stopped wasting myself on useless dates. They are all just pointless and monotonous. Until I meet the one that really catches me, I will not build anything serious with anyone.
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“I don’t understand other men. How can you start dating a girl a month after the first date? I go on dates, probably once every 4-6 months. I have been courting a woman for a long time, carefully taking every step, but, unfortunately, I came to the conclusion that ladies like it faster to enter into a relationship. And it's so hard for me."
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“I broke up with my girlfriend, and I still can’t find anyone for myself. All due to the fact that I realized that I could not fully open up to anyone else. But without this, it will not be possible to build healthy close relationships. I just don’t know how to overcome myself, because it’s scary to get burned again. ”
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“From childhood, I was timid, and it was hard for me to make friends with my peers. Now I am already an adult independent man, but it’s still so difficult for me to even just get to know people. And I can't talk to girls at all. It always seems to me that people perceive me somehow wrong, and look at me askance.
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“It is very difficult for me to take the first step. No, I'm not afraid, I'm just tired of it. Where did they get the idea that a man should be the initiator of dates, relationships and other things? I feel like I'm being used, I have to invite to the cafe myself, pay myself, organize everything myself. Well, I'm already tired of it. I just want to relax and enjoy the conversation, and not be a servant for a woman.”
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“I am terribly afraid of rejection. Especially when you sit and puzzle over what a woman thinks, what to say, what to do. I can’t stand it when they don’t answer my questions, so I became silent more often. ”
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“I just don’t have time for girls. I study, I work, I go to the gym. If I also had a girlfriend, then I would not have time at all. It’s so difficult for me to find time for dating, where will I get it for dates and building relationships... ”.
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“As soon as the relationship with the girl goes to a new level with us, I start to wonder if there is love between us. Maybe just friendship? But this is not about my feelings with regards, but hers. I don’t understand women’s hints, but I really don’t want to be imposed. ”
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“The main reason that I am still alone is my short stature. I am very complex. It's just been a bad experience. Therefore, I communicate with girls only on the network, and even there all the ladies, as soon as they find out about my height, stop writing to me.
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“Very rarely I come across women who, so to speak, cling. I am always glad to new acquaintances and open to communication, but I almost never come across those who would be interesting. If the same one still manages to be met, I do not receive any reciprocity.
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Poor men, we will definitely never understand them, they say correctly that we are from different planets!
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