Many women after 35 are perplexed, well, where can they find a normal man, and in general, is it possible. So I decided to talk about this topic. I haven’t come across it personally, but there are several girlfriends who really almost grab their heads because they can’t meet a worthy one.
Someone suggests digging around on a dating site and just going on dates. You look, you're lucky from the 10th time. Others simply recommend taking a closer look at their surroundings, colleagues, former classmates, and maybe unmarried neighbors.
There are other ways to find a partner. For example, you can look for him in a foreign language course, or you can even contact a foreigner online, in the hope of further immigration.
My girlfriends sigh: “Well, where can I find normal ones? They were taken apart before the age of 30.” They also sigh, because they believe that it is very difficult for them to compete with twenty-year-olds, those young ones, their forms are elastic, and they do not have a rich past.
And I think that there is no need to compare yourself with the young, because a woman at 35 is at the peak of all her abilities. She got an education, she has a good profession, and there is no need to turn into a maniac, looking for at least a bad male, even among friends.
For some reason, women are led by the myth that after 35 they are already declining, both the psyche and the capabilities of the body. But, if you maintain physical activity, take vitamins, monitor nutrition, you can stay in great shape for a long time. If there are problems with the profession, then now you can learn almost everything on the Internet, and finding a job remotely is also not a problem. In the past, yes, women 35+ had practically no chance to stay in the ranks, but then there was poor nutrition, women were engaged in hard physical labor. And now? Now stores are full of useful products, you can count calories right on your smartphone, you can count steps, you can sign up for fitness. You can upgrade your appearance and health in such a way that any 20-year-old will not win. Because at 35 there is an advantage - intelligence, experience, lack of quirks and whining.
And in general, a woman 35+ becomes a very interesting person. How many books she read, watched films, how much she studied everything - all this undoubtedly turned her worldview upside down. She becomes desirable for many men.
And while some are frantically trying to find a man for themselves, others are in no hurry to enter into marriage with anyone. Because family life is not always quiet and smooth. I think if a woman over 35 dreams of marriage, and laments that she can’t find a normal man in any way, this does not mean that they are nowhere to be found. This means that she has another problem - the unjustified hopes that she places on marriage.
Or maybe just stop looking? Or lower the bar for male normality? 35 is not the end of life, it is an excellent age. And he is equally good, both in order to get married, and in order to live alone.
Stop living with stereotypes, looking for a man just because everyone has long had a soul mate. Let everything go as it goes. Just live with pleasure, without looking back at someone else's opinion, no need to rush, because “accepted” or because you are under pressure, then you will relax, and then, quite by chance, you will meet that himself! And the fact is that it will not even be an accident, but a pattern!
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