I have always been surprised by people who speak very negatively about unmarried people. They say that they are unfortunate, that they are very unlucky, that they will remain lonely for the rest of their lives. I will say that such stereotypes have long been outdated. Now you can be happy without a husband, but in marriage you can rake a lot of all sorts of problems. If a woman does not have a husband, this does not mean that she is a lonely and unnecessary loser who has not managed to realize herself in life! Each of us, women, is very interesting and resourceful in itself!
Here are the things you can get without a husband, and they are even more important!
friendship
I'm not talking about a huge number of friends, because quantity is not the main thing, the main thing is quality! A person is able to achieve a lot if there are 2-3 reliable friends next to him who can be trusted and who can be relied on in any situation.
Work
It's the one that makes you happy! Life passes quickly, and it is very stupid to spend it on an unloved job. Unfortunately, very often in marriage, a woman is forced to go out at least somewhere to help her husband with money. And an unmarried woman always has a choice, and she does it not in favor of a huge salary, but in favor of her favorite business.
financial independence
Marry for love, not for money. If you want a rich partner, then it is better to take care of your financial independence. When a woman has a firm confidence in her future, she does not rush down the aisle if only with someone, if only with the rich!
self-sufficiency
Every woman should be and feel like an individual, not just part of a married couple. She should not put herself only as an addition to her husband. It is important for her to realize herself that she can achieve a lot with her own strength and efforts. This realization comes with age.
Hobby
Many married women exhaust themselves like this with household chores, unloved work, upbringing children and "serving" husbands that they simply forget about themselves, about interesting activities that they like, oh hobby. And unmarried people know that doing something interesting that brings pleasure is much better than being married!
Good self-esteem
It is important for a woman to understand that she deserves only all the best. It takes a lot of time to build the right self-esteem. It is much more pleasant to do what brings pleasure, to spend time and money on yourself, instead of devoting your life to people who poison your life. When a wife understands what self-esteem is, she chooses her environment more carefully and stops exchanging for unnecessary people.
Motivation
To be happy, there must be an engine of continuous movement. You need to look for something that will stimulate you to move forward, and not degrade!
good looks
Unmarried women devote more time to their appearance, visit cosmetologists, massage parlors, gyms. Taking care of yourself is important for beauty and women's health.
Happiness
It is a mistake to think that unmarried women are unhappy, because happiness has absolutely nothing to do with marriage. You can be interesting, self-sufficient, self-confident, communicate with nice people, be independent and without a husband! Many values are re-evaluated when a woman finds various sources of happiness. And marriage can be a nice bonus to all this.
Self love
It is important to find harmony in yourself, to love yourself, to accept. Even if a woman lacks love, do not rush to get married. Your happiness and attitude towards yourself should not depend on whether there is someone nearby or not!
You should not get married, because society dictates so, because “the clock is ticking” and you want children. These are all already hackneyed stereotypes that do not give a woman pleasure and happiness, but, on the contrary, can deprive a lot of things!
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