Only the wife and husband bring vice or holiness into the family. And everyone else can do it only with their connivance. The family is a sacred place, it is our fortress, and we need to protect it from the "invasion" of strangers. And happiness loves silence, and quarrels cannot be endured from the hut. Here are 12 rules that spouses need to follow for a happy marriage!
Spouses should be everything to each other
You should become not only spouses, lovers, but also interlocutors, friends. Before you go down the aisle, you need to think carefully about what a person will become for you, what he will give you. Then in the future you will not encounter disappointments and some surprises.
Spouses should not have secrets from each other
You can’t tell something to others, but at the same time hide it from your soulmate, otherwise others will be closer to you. Before you secretly with someone, think. Spouses should be for each other the most important people with whom you can discuss absolutely any topic.
Spouses should turn a blind eye to each other's shortcomings
We are not perfect, before we get married, we can have a long life. We all acquire some character traits, habits, interests. If you choose a person, you must accept him as he is, without trying to change anything in him. You need to close your eyes to his shortcomings, and just love!
Spouses should not joke with each other, hurting the feelings of a loved one
It would seem that harmless banter can give rise to alienation, hostility, hatred, resentment, anger. So be careful with jokes, they sometimes hurt much more than anything else.
In the family, spouses see a reflection of themselves
In other words, how you will behave, how you will perform your duties, what you will do - will always be reflected in the integrity of your family. Never speak ill of your soul mate, and don't let others do the same. Do not complain, do not wash dirty linen in public, otherwise you yourself will let negative energy into your family.
Happiness loves silence
Just as you shouldn't talk about your relationship problems with strangers, you shouldn't talk about your happiness either. If you boast to everyone, then you will generate envy, gossip, hatred in people.
No advice from outside
Neither relatives nor friends should be your advisers in your relationship with your soulmate. Just because it's good for some doesn't mean it's good for others. Only you are responsible for peace and happiness in your home!
trust each other
You, like your partner, must be sure that you belong to each other completely. Appreciate your soulmate, trust her, do not deceive.
Do not quarrel
Without periodic quarrels, it is impossible to build normal healthy relationships. We are all different people, we can have our own habits and opinions. But still, when once again some disagreements begin to arise in you, just think about what kind of person you want to be: right in everything or still happy? Take care of family happiness!
Strive for Unity
You both need to put more effort into making your couple one. Unity with the second half - this is happiness.
Contradictions should not doom you to a miserable life.
Unfortunately, even minor differences of opinion, not discussed by the spouses, can doom their union to misfortune. Remember that you should not make each other unhappy.
Protect your family from evil
We ourselves let people into our lives who can bring evil and destruction to the family. Be careful with who you communicate with!
May happiness, trust, mutual understanding, harmony and love always reign in your family!
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