Every person has such difficult days in life when absolutely everything falls out of hand. But, you should know that this is not a reason to stop at all!
Sometimes setbacks rain down on us not for days, but for whole years, and our life does not go at all as we expected. I also had this. There were difficult periods when it seemed that you were sucked into some kind of swamp, and you could not get out in any way. At such moments, mixed feelings arise. First, there is some despondency, then anger, then resentment, but if you show a little strength, you can not stay drowning in that swamp, but try to get out!
Yes, it was difficult for me too. And my attempts to get out and start all over again were useless, it was a complete failure. And I got tired of floundering, I wanted to hide in a corner and cry, I wanted to be pitied, to decide everything for me, I just didn't have the strength. And that morning it was the same, I just woke up with a feeling of my helplessness and did not understand at all what to do next.
I, as before, got up, gathered the children to the kindergarten and to school, my husband to work. It only seems that these are calm manipulations. Here, for example, all the time, someone cannot find their clothes, someone forgets the key, phone, etc. But that day was just maddeningly special. As soon as I shoved everyone into their places, I decided to sit down to work, but suddenly the lights were turned off. He was gone for about 3 hours, the computer turned off, I had to occupy myself with something. I started cleaning, but apparently on that day the utilities decided to repair everything in the world. Yes, my water was turned off.
I decided to go to my relatives, I had been planning for a long time. She got behind the wheel, but realized that she had forgotten her bag at home. She returned, took the bag, got behind the wheel. I went, a garbage truck appeared in front of me somehow miraculously. He barely drove, stopped, puffed, I simply could not overtake him in any way, because the oncoming traffic was kind of hellish. At that moment, I just wanted to cry, or go home, go to bed, and give up on absolutely everything.
A stressful morning like this - it's just a mild stress level, but there are worse problems! For example, lack of work, finances, illness, some problems in the family, etc., then the stress becomes excessive. But we are adults, and no one except ourselves can solve our problems. Therefore, I want you to remember these simple truths, and remember them when it is especially hard for you!
You must be stronger than the circumstances
You cannot predict exactly what will happen to you tomorrow. But finally understand that you can cope with any situation! Just stop complaining, giving up, thank the Universe and God for what good has happened to you. I always do this, I just close my eyes and thank, and even serious difficulties immediately seem less significant to me. I try to always treat everything that happens positively, and not load my head with any negative, evil thoughts, even if it is very difficult for me.
Trouble only strengthens us
Any difficulties that are sent to us are needed in order for us to become stronger. They temper us. If we are faced with them, then we will definitely be able to cope with them! Any of our efforts have a purpose. Therefore, instead of asking: "Why do I need this?", Ask: "Why do I need this?" ...
All God's plans are for good only
We have our own plans, God has ours, and they are a little different. But in any case, the plans of the Lord always lead only to the best. Sometimes we even have to go through intense pain in order to find peace and tranquility. Learn to endure, wait instead of planning, and then get discouraged.
God will never leave us
Sometimes it seems to us that we are alone, and we will have to go through all the difficulties alone. But do not forget that God will never leave any of us, just endure, and never lose hope!
Good luck, happiness and patience to everyone!
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