One of the words, which has long been replenished with youth slang, "choked". What kind of animal is this and how to calculate it - we'll talk about it!
Psychologists also define a "stuffy" person, saying that this is a boring, petty, unpleasant person in communication with whom it is very stressful to talk.
Here are the signs of "stuffy"
Any conversations with him begin to exhaust
This is because he is able to broadcast about the same thing for hours. And his topics are always some kind of muddy, negative - about the fact that "we live in a bad country", health is naughty, the crisis in the economy. After such communication, a strong breakdown is felt.
He is obsessive
It is sometimes unrealistic to get rid of this person! At first he is looking for some naive person in his company who knows how to listen, and that's it, sticks like a bath leaf. He is always there, where he was not invited, where he was not invited, where he was not expected.
He blames others for everything.
He never admits his guilt at all, even if it is obvious that he messed up something. He will definitely start to get out, blaming others.
He tries to be always in the spotlight.
Everyone must certainly listen to what he is talking about, admire him, reckon with his mood. And still you can't come across him if he's out of sorts.
He does not know how to show compassion
“Stuffed” only speaks about herself, about her affairs and problems. And on others, he doesn't care at all. This is definitely not the kind of person who can cry into a vest, waiting for a supportive word. He may hear your story out of the corner of his ear, but then he will quickly translate the topic into his problems.
He is caring to the "stuffy"
As I said, he will be wherever he was not called. And also he will violate other people's boundaries, meddle not in his own affairs, and an attempt to stop him will be regarded by him as a betrayal.
He is envious
"Stuffed" does not know how to be happy for others, but he knows how to envy. As soon as someone has a great joy, someone has achieved heights, etc., he begins to go crazy with envy. Gossip begins behind the back, discussions, and he never says anything to his eyes.
He criticizes and devalues other people's efforts.
It is simply impossible to share with him his successes in business, he will certainly begin to ridicule, devalue, criticize. His jokes may at first glance seem petty and harmless, but with them he is able to humiliate a person very much!
He is constantly at war with someone.
He cannot be on good terms with everyone. If today he is nice and friendly with you, you should know that somewhere there is a person who pissed him off. But soon he will find himself another, and you will be the most terrible in the world. By the way, keep in mind that "stranglers" are the most frequent persons involved in various disputes, quarrels, as well as legal proceedings!
He does not accept help from others.
Builds out of himself as an independent person, is confident in his righteousness, rejects other people's advice, is dissatisfied when they fuss with his opinion. He himself knows how best to act, what to do and where to go!
He's a manipulator
I think this is already clear from the previous signs. In particular, the "stuffy" likes to push people with their heads together, and watch what this leads to.
He is emotionally unstable.
He is sometimes caring, then sharply hates everyone and everything! And you will have to constantly think about what his mood is now.
He often lies
He wants to be in the spotlight, wants to be listened to and admired, therefore he adds lies to his stories, embellishing the facts.
Have you met such "stuffy" people?
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