Every day people tell me about their ailments, examinations, treatments, and other adventures at home and in all kinds of medical institutions.
It is immediately evident that people are worried about something about their health. They show their interest in lengthy comments, approving or disapproving interjections, pictures, emoticons and even foul language.
After a while, there is a vague feeling that readers would like to find out more. They begin to tell more and more detailed stories from life, express their attitude to the topic of conversation and gradually get irritated. Seeing something they still lack in our communication.
So the topic of thrombosis in the veins of the legs, which can shoot into the pulmonary artery, is very exciting and attracts attention.
And the topic of thrombosis also seems interesting to me. And a few thousand more topics seem interesting to me. In general, I like my job. All sorts of diseases, ulcers, pus, incontinence, gangrene, blood, intestines outward, all cases. Therefore, I constantly tell something, write or draw. And then I show it to everyone. And in the end I usually ask something myself.
And then the readers tell how they are worried about some topic. Or that they misunderstand something in some matter. But more often they expound at length on two pages about how the lack of information on the topic of their chronic disease destroys their already fragile mental organization.
People! If you think that you will provoke me into a dialogue, expressing your concerns about your own health or admitting that you are interested in a similar topic, then you are very much mistaken. Remember what I just told you? I bathe in misery, bloodshed, excrement and all kinds of contagion. Compared to this mundane dirt, all your doubts and worries fade slightly and will not force me to delve into the problem.
If you want an answer from me, then contact me with a direct request and the form of a complete interrogative sentence. Don't ask "Why?" This is a too short interrogative sentence. There are 50 other comments above this question. I don’t have time to leaf through it all. Expand the thought somehow. Like: "Why does my stomach start to ache if I skip taking this pill?"
Do not talk about your hard feelings about the topic of hemoptysis. So you will not get answers and explanations from me. I saw a man cough up most of his blood in a couple of minutes, collapse and die. Against the background of these memories, your confused experiences are instantly lost. Ask direct questions. If you do not know how to make a direct request, you will get nothing. Because I don't have time to just talk "for life." Got it?
And yes, there are about a hundred different psychological phenomena and all kinds of cognitive distortions that will prevent some of you from making a direct request to someone. This is also almost a disease. A separate story. But then don't be offended.
