Envious people constantly haunt us. As soon as something good happens in our life, they are already there, they can devalue our success, make fun of us, cause self-pity. And you know what I understood? Envious people can forgive us for what we received from our parents. They may even forgive what we got by some accident. And, if someone has appropriated or stolen something, and they will forgive that too! But if you achieve success on your own, thanks to hard work, intelligence, talent - they certainly will not forgive you!
There is such envy, the most powerful, black, capable of really doing harm. It comes from people in the form of hatred, anger, rudeness. It's unpleasant to experience this on yourself. It's one thing when something pleasant has happened in your life, a person is happy for you and says that he is jealous, but kindly, i.e. white envy. It's another matter when a person, for whatever reason, begins to hate you for your success in work, friendship, love, or whatever. Such are not capable of rejoicing for others.
What does the envious think at such moments? He does not understand why you are better than others, that you are so lucky. He does not think you are better than himself and everyone else. Of course, you worked so hard, perhaps you didn’t sleep enough and didn’t eat enough to achieve what you wanted, but he didn’t even make any attempts to develop, and now he does not understand why you, and not him!
He was too lazy to work, but he never admitted it. He didn't want to try to go forward. And now he is simply overwhelmed with envious poison, because you have succeeded. He will definitely never forgive you for this.
It is clear when you got something, for example, from relatives. It is enviable here, of course, but it can be explained. Luck is simple and no more. Well, or you were able to deceive everyone, cheat, cheat somewhere, so you are lucky. But he himself is not an envious person, he cannot do that, and therefore he has to live worse, because he is better. He will wave his hand at you, like God is your judge, and he will calm down.
But let's say, with the help of your own efforts, you managed to get out of poverty, save up for a car, earn money for a trip abroad, get a high position, meet a good person, etc. - it means that you turned out to be better envious. And to admit it is very difficult, it is tantamount to admitting your own laziness and underdevelopment, insulting, insulting and difficult. So all that remains is to be angry, hate and envy.
Therefore, those who were able to achieve everything themselves are hated much more than those who got it all by accident. And they are much more envious of such people, with a kind of poison. Do you know what I'll tell you? If you are really so envied - this is a sign of your real success! But, unfortunately, it doesn't make it any easier.
Probably, it is better not to argue when they begin to attribute to you rich relatives who provide you, or say that you are just lucky. So at least a hating envious person will calm down, preserving his self-esteem as well. So you can avoid dirty rumors, curses against yourself, slander.
There are so many rumors around those who have achieved everything themselves. They even have no time to expose all sorts of bad gossip, because they need to continue to work in order to achieve even more. Or maybe they simply do not react to slander, so as not to face the dangerous and aggressive envy of lazy people! Because envious people never forgive success, never!
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