It is important to show your good sides by making the right impression on the person when you first meet them. There will be no other case. That is why, it is necessary to think over the upcoming meeting in advance, having worked out all the nuances. Your intonation, words and even gestures will make a huge difference when meeting a person.
Let's find out ways to make a good impression on a person.
Only look in your eyes
Maybe you are uncomfortable, difficult, but you need to overcome yourself, take a deep breath, and look your interlocutor only in the eyes. It would be unpleasant for you if the person looked away. But also do not become an "X-ray", intently incinerating a person, as if trying to evaluate him. There is nothing difficult here. Just from time to time focus on the eyes of the interlocutor, be sure to smile periodically, avert your eyes to the objects that surround you, and then look the person in the eyes again. So sympathy and mutual understanding will arise between you.
Smile
You should not smile with all your teeth at every meeting, otherwise it will seem to many as infantilism and excessive self-confidence. But it is better to set aside arrogance with restraint, and for this you do not need to smile with the edges of your lips. I propose to practice in front of the mirror, so that later, when you meet a person, you do not have any awkwardness and confusion. Or you can practice with your loved ones so that they can determine the degree of your smile.
Shake your hand
When meeting, shaking hands will speak of respect for a person. Just do not overdo it with pressure or, on the contrary, a sluggish handshake.
Be above the other person
You need to come up with and make sure that you are taller than the interlocutor. Imagine how a person will look at you - from the bottom up. This is your very advantageous position. If you have a very tall person in front of you, it's a little more difficult. Women can be advised to put on a high heel, well, and for those who do not see heels, it is better to straighten up, it is not necessary to raise your head at all, raise your eyes, and keep your distance.
Select a voice tone
If you want your speech to be persuasive, then you need to switch to low sounds.
Gesture correctly
You don’t have to stand at all without movement, and you don’t need to wave your arms in different directions either. You should feel the fullness of life and lightness. Again, you can practice beforehand. Raise your elbows so they should be parallel to the floor. Now you need to outline with your hands, as it were, semicircles - you get a space for gesticulation. Don't become an Italian waving your arms, just periodically emphasize your speech with movements.
Decide on the speed of speech
This is also very important in order to make a pleasant impression on the interlocutor. Take your time, you don't have to turn into a machine-gun burst, so that a person cannot put in a word. After all, so your words will be difficult to perceive. And do not be silent, otherwise you will seem boring and start annoying. Learn to speak in such a way that the interlocutor cannot lose interest in your conversation, but at the same time can participate in the conversation by adding their statements. You can highlight some phrases with pauses.
As you can see, it is not so difficult to make a good impression on a person while dating. The main thing is to choose the golden mean in all methods, not to rush, be attentive and open.
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