Probably almost every woman once faced a very difficult choice. What to do, try to improve the relationship or end it... He moved away, it's sad, but the hope still remains that he is good, and that you will be fine.
The worst thing is that you are deceiving yourself, because you understand that nothing will change for the better. You've been through this before, haven't you? You fell in love with a man, he seemed to you almost perfect. He spoke the right words to you, courted you beautifully, and gradually you began to have real feelings for him.
You knew there was an invisible bond between you. But all the same they tried not to fall in love very much and so immediately, why this rush? You did not tell everything about yourself, did not open up to the end, allowing him to study you. And only when you made sure that everything is for real between you, you decided to completely surrender to your feelings. But the man for some reason moved away.
He became somehow nervous, irritated, angry, cold. He began to ignore you, and this was at the very moment when you thought that everything was really serious between you. He began not to answer your SMS for a long time, he could not pick up the phone when you called, he came up with excuses not to go with you where he promised.
As soon as you believed in your feelings, realized that he was "the one", began to plan the future, he began to move away. He just turned out to be immature and selfish. You allowed yourself to relax, and he disappointed you.
Now, you’re mad at yourself because you thought it’s going to be different this time. You want to tell him everything, pour out your soul, tell about what is in your heart. You would like to ask him why a chasm has formed between you, why he does not love you, why the relationship did not work out.
But please listen to me! He just doesn't deserve you! You are a strong woman and you will never beg for love. You need to collect all your strength and just let him go. Let him go, because he turned out to be a coward who himself does not know what he wants from life. He himself did not understand his feelings, he played, he invented something for himself, and maybe he knew how everything would end, and pretended for some reason.
No need to run after him, no need to prove to him that you are worth more, that you are worthy of him. He is an ordinary boy who fed you with promises, it's time to realize this and get your romance out of your head.
Do not stoop to its level, do not try to glue something that cannot be glued. Just walk away from him. Your happiness does not depend on him. If he were your soul mate, he would never run away from you exactly when you needed more than anything in the world.
Wake up, stop living in your imaginary world! You created it yourself, but it will never become reality, and you know it! This man is simply not worth your time, your tears and worries. You are a strong woman to spend yourself thinking about his feelings, dreaming that everything will work out between you. Stop tormenting yourself with thoughts: to call him or not. Just accept the fact that you won't be together! Let him go!
Get the bad thoughts out of your head and stop waiting for him, he does not appreciate you, he is not worthy of it. You are too cool, beautiful, amazing to run after someone.
Let go, endure, you just need time and everything will pass! Never beg for love, and walk out of a relationship in which you are not appreciated!
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