The family is our fortress, the second half is protection, rear, support, family relations - that which needs to be worked on constantly, that which needs to be protected from prying eyes.
Here are some simple truths that every woman looking for a strong and healthy relationship should learn:
You and your husband should be everything to each other.
If you are looking for a man for life, then in the first place you should have communication with him and sincerity.
The wife should not have secrets from her husband that she would share with strangers. No need to be secretive with your mom when discussing your partner, no need to chat about your relationship with your girlfriends. The same applies to the spouse. Your relationship is something mysterious that should not be open to prying eyes.
You must bury your husband's vices in your heart forever, and your husband must also close his eyes to your shortcomings. Especially in moments of quarrels. You chose a love partner for yourself, he seemed ideal to you, which means that if you don't like him in something now, there is a share of your responsibility in this.
You shouldn't indulge in jokes that hurt your partner. Even if they seem harmless to you, they can hurt your soul mate very hard. In addition, you shouldn't even jokingly complain to your friends about your partner. It seems harmless to you, but then you yourself can sip a lot of negativity. It is a betrayal to tell strangers that your beloved is not like that.
The family symbolizes the sky in which the spouses see their own reflection. Only spouses bring both holiness and vice into this place. Others can desecrate this place only with the permission of the husband or wife.
Do not humiliate your spouse in the eyes of others, and do not allow outsiders to speak negatively about him.
Think about what people who visit your home bring to your family. For example, your unmarried girlfriends. Man is a weak being who can envy the happiness of others. And envy can negatively affect family life. And you do not need to brag about your happiness, it is better to be silent, listen to others, and take care of your relationship from prying thoughts and eyes.
Your relationship should not be interfered with by relatives, friends, or anyone else. The counselors will go further, and you will follow their advice, ruining your family life. Remember what is ideal for some may be bad for others. Only listen to your heart!
Both of you must be 100% sure that you completely and completely belong to each other, this will give you a sense of trust, calmness and ease.
Appreciate the trust of your man, do not lie to him.
When there is a fight, always think, do you need to prove your case, or do you want to be a happy woman? Strive for unity, and your differences will clear by themselves. Being with your husband as a whole is a rather difficult task, to the fulfillment of which you must constantly strive. Your contradictions will prevent the two of you from moving forward, and will doom you to a miserable life.
Protect your relationship and your home from evil people and all bad things. You are the keeper of the hearth, a lot depends on you. Evil can go through people whom you yourself allow into your home. Develop better, take care of yourself, work, instead of communicating with people who can harm your happiness. Only then will happiness, goodness and wisdom come into your life.
I wish you all love and understanding!
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