Our life can change, both for the better and for the worse. And it's hard to understand what lies ahead. Here is a list of the things that make big changes start.
You start to deny less
When a black streak sets in in life, we often "turn on" denial in order to protect ourselves from negativity. But with this we only lead ourselves to a dead end. Panic won't help you. Once you learn to accept everything that happens, once you stop perceiving it as something wrong, it will become easier for you. Yes, acceptance of reality is not always easy; sadness, regret and even anger may come. But you need all these feelings. You have to change, just as your life changes. Everything takes time. Until then, open up to change!
You start to analyze your decisions and actions in hindsight.
As soon as a person is on the verge of big changes, he begins to look back and think if he did the right thing. This is normal and even good! With the help of all reflections, you can get to know yourself better, understand why the turning point in life has come right now. And it's good if you manage to transfer your past experience to the future, giving it the development that you really need.
You begin to clearly understand your desires.
The process may not be entirely enjoyable. Let's say it is difficult to realize that for a long time a person was mistaken, but in fact wanted something completely different from life. In the course of dealing with denial, feelings such as disappointment and regret will appear. And that's okay. It is because of denial that you have long believed that you want something completely different, or have not allowed yourself to achieve what you want.
You start to give up everything unnecessary.
From things that previously seemed important to you, from people who pulled you to the bottom, but you either did not notice it, or were engaged in self-deception. Some even change their homes, change the city for another, work. All this is happening in the course of cardinal changes. Such changes will be scary, but inside you will understand that they are needed for your development and movement forward.
You start to clean up old problems
On the verge of change, old problems will surely surface, and you will want to put all your affairs in order. As if starting life from scratch, so that nothing was drawn. You may have to break off a relationship with a person with whom you are uncomfortable, change jobs, or move to another city. Previously, there was no desire and strength for all this, but now they suddenly appeared! All this is a consequence of the fact that changes are knocking into your life.
You get the feeling that the circle is closed
You have been thinking about changes for a long time, worried about it, you had a premonition that all this would happen. And now there was a feeling that the circle was closed. You will begin to understand that you have known about the changes for a long time, but for some reason tried to deceive yourself, to avoid them. And now life itself has directed you in the right direction.
You suddenly think about self-esteem
You will accept yourself, give up denial, and understand what role in this life is destined for you. You will suddenly understand who you are and what you want, you will understand what you are capable of, what is within your control, what needs to be done for this. And then you will feel relieved. You will finally be able to make society see you as you are. You will feel proud of yourself. You will understand that you deserve a better life, and you can achieve what you dreamed of.
You will find inner peace
You will suddenly learn to stop to understand what makes you happy, what you want. Anxiety will disappear somewhere. You realize that due to your own calming, you are able to independently change your life for the better.
You will easily embark on a new stage in life.
No one has an easy time at turning points in life. But, if a person is able to learn to understand himself, he will be able to prepare for changes. And for this you need to be grateful to everything that happens! At the same time, you will understand that all the failures that happened to you were necessary for you, you needed them, and they gave you the opportunity to learn new things by drawing important conclusions.
Now you are on the verge of big changes, and may they bring you maximum positive emotions!
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