Life is difficult and short. Therefore, you need to stop wasting it on unnecessary, and instead realize these truths before it is too late!
You may not have the opportunity to say "love" tomorrow
Your loved ones deserve to be aware of your feelings. Stop hiding them, because one day it may happen that it will be too late. If you love your spouse, tell him / her about it every day, if you love your children, tell them about it. These are not self-evident things, how will people know how you feel about them if you are constantly silent? There is nothing to be ashamed about, just say "I love". Start doing it today.
Your opinions about other people may be wrong.
No one can say about a person what he really is, if he does not know the history of his life. It may seem to you that this friend of yours is greedy, the other one is evil, and that woman you met by chance is abusing alcohol.
Do you know what is going on in their lives? Maybe the first acquaintance is in debt, and at the same time is trying to save up more money in order to buy an apartment, while the other often faced betrayal, and now everyone seems to be angry, because no one opens. And that woman you met by chance just recently buried her child... You have no right to judge, label, divide people into good and bad!
Many people fail because they stop trying.
Instead of worrying about your mistakes and failures, you should worry about the opportunities you missed. Is it possible that something can happen if after the next fall you give up and don't try? No! You need to get up and move on! The only obstacle on the way to the goal is the unwillingness to try to do at least something.
Tolerate and do nothing are two different things.
On the contrary, you should try to survive as much as possible, taking advantage of the available opportunities, realizing that the results of your aspiration are worth the time and effort you spent. Tolerate is realizing that the quality of your life is more important than the number of things you fill it with. Tolerate is about accepting and appreciating what you already have, and making an effort to achieve what you dream of.
Maybe you don't need more to be happy.
Over the years, a person realizes that the best things in this life are not things at all, but their favorite work, experience and relationships with people. All this is a component of a happy life, not mansions, gold and expensive cars.
Nobody is perfect and neither are you
We can all lose our temper, make mistakes, make mistakes. Even a patient person can lose patience, even a confident person can get confused. This suggests that we are just people, and we should not consider someone ideal, and someone not. We are different! And the ideal simply does not exist.
Lots of small things add up to a big result
The meaning of life is not in one big success, but in those tiny steps that you took on the way to it. They seem insignificant to you, but they are not. If you did not perform them, you would not achieve your triumph. Everything that happened to you was not in vain. All this has made you wiser, more experienced, stronger. This led you to success.
My point is that if now it seems to you that you are somehow uselessly spending your evenings, for example, reading books about psychology or novels about love, you should know that all this may be useful to you in the future. If you now have to work too hard because you are building a house, over time you will be able to achieve your goal. It's like a piggy bank! It is impossible to achieve something at once, you have to try, try, sacrifice, walk, fall and get up.
Excuses are lies
As soon as a person begins to shower with excuses on the way to his dream, he removes himself from it. He's just lying. And this is the worst lie, because it is a lie to yourself. When you start making excuses, convincing yourself that there is nothing you can do right now, you are hurting yourself. Understand that you cannot stay idle and engage in self-deception, no one will make you happy except yourself.
These are the simple, sobering and very important truths that are worth realizing today!
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