Why, for the sake of some women, men are ready for feats, they achieve them, shower them with compliments and confessions, while others do not even cause them to want to continue the relationship further? The fact is that many ladies themselves alienate gentlemen.
This is what men don't like about women at all.
Nagging
Yes, that's so rude, but otherwise, probably, none of the women will be able to understand what has been said. You may have a past, problems, troubles, disruptions in health, but stop constantly procrastinating these topics. Yes, a man will always help if he loves you and values you, but do not make your relationship overgrown with your tears, discontent, problems, grumbling that everything is wrong. This, in the end, begins to enrage anyone, not only the chosen one!
You don't make a man want
It is very important. At the beginning of a relationship between a man and a woman, chemistry arises, and they are attracted to each other, including physically. But, if over time this attraction disappears, the sign is not very good. And in many ways the women are to blame, because they stop caring for themselves, and turn into grumpy spouses from jokes with a rolling pin and an apron.
Failure to keep the distance
Men, as women, need attention from the other half. But when you start encroaching on their personal space, they get nervous, they definitely don't like it. If a woman does not trust her chosen one, she also shows her self-doubt, and this is repulsive. A man has a picture of his future in his head: life without meeting friends, favorite hobby, hobbies that start to scare him.
Mercantile
A man doesn't like it when a woman treats him like a walking wallet. Of course, there is an exception when male goods are exchanged for female disposition, but... If a man needs a serious relationship, then he avoids mercantile women.
And then what attracts men to women?
Calmness
A man perceives a woman as an assistant on the path to his victories, and does not want to see a man next to him, who makes a drama out of everything, constantly experiences, cries, which, on the contrary, is an obstacle to paths.
Self confidence
A man will be next to that woman who knows her worth, and will not constantly harass her chosen one by begging for confirmation of her value and beauty. An insecure woman will be afraid of losing a relationship, will be jealous, deprive a man of personal space, etc. Confident, on the other hand, sparks interest!
Independence
Much more attractive is the woman who is confident in herself, knows how to solve her problems, and does not make the chosen one the center of the Universe. I want to be close to her, I want to help her, admire her.
Feeling that the woman has made her choice
It is important for a man to feel like a hunter, a conqueror, a winner. He needs to be jealous, weed out everyone who comes close to his lady of the heart, so he will be in constant tension, he will be afraid of losing a woman. And it is important for him to know that the chosen one is liked by others, she accepts compliments, admiring glances, but at the same time stays with him, because she made her choice.
Do not be discouraged if you find the traits from the first list in yourself. There is always an opportunity to work on oneself, change, become better, even if not for the one about whom the heart is in vain, but for oneself. Yes, the most important thing is to start loving yourself, and the interest that men begin to show towards you will be a pleasant bonus for you!
Do you have anything to add to these lists?
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