Envy is such a terrible feeling. Envy is worse than even hunger, because it is spiritual hunger. When a person feels good, when everything in his life is glued together, he begins to annoy those for whom everything is not so perfect.
I think you have faced a similar situation on several occasions. A joyful event has happened in your life, you are in a hurry to share it with people close to you, but in response you hear only condemnation, you see dissatisfied looks. This is very unpleasant and insulting!
This means that you are simply not interested in such people, in principle, as they are not very important to you. Yes, there are real friends who will support you and rejoice with you. But there are also just people who have solid darkness inside, and we are forced to communicate with such people, unfortunately. Those who are dark in their souls poison our life, our light. The light of other people's souls begins to cause anger and irritation in them.
With their anger, people with darkness inside want to take our light away from us in order to feel better. They want to spoil our mood, devalue our achievements and success, so that against our background they become much brighter, better.
There are mushrooms that look very beautiful, but life-threatening. Likewise, people with darkness inside - they rub their trust in us, they can swear in eternal love and friendship, but at the right opportunity they poison our lives. All this is only so that we cannot spread the light with our joy. Communication with such people leads to the fact that we are extinguished, and then we cannot come to our senses for a long time. We start to waste away, our mood deteriorates, and some may even become depressed!
Everyone talks about their joy in a different way. Someone, for example, writes posts on social networks. As it is now fashionable for bloggers, they write about some pleasant event for them on their Instagram page, so that subscribers will share the light with them. But there are a lot of haters who will certainly humiliate, insult, devalue joy and success. It couldn't be worse when, in a great mood, you share your joy with others, but in return you get unpleasant words and envious puffing. All joy, as if by hand "removes".
We tell the interlocutor about something good that has happened in our life, and expect at least a smile in response, not to mention delight. But this is not the case. And it becomes so disgusting at heart that it is difficult to convey in words.
When light meets darkness, the former begins to fade. It seems to a person that his wings have been clipped, emotions are weakening, all the joy disappears.
If you began to meet this often in communication with your friend, then it’s time, probably, to think, but what are you doing together? Happiness, after all, is contagious, but only for those who are able to share it with others and can also shine from within. For people with darkness inside, the joy of others begins to cause discomfort, envy, anger and anger. And it's not about you, it's about their inadequate reaction, which may be associated with their personal complexes and some kind of trauma.
Do not blame yourself for the fact that everything is so good with you now, and someone else is worse. Is this your fault? Of course not! No need to justify others who wish you bad, who are not happy with your happiness!
So just shine! Let your light illuminate the world around you with joy and kindness. Don't let the people of darkness get in your way. Just remove them from your life, continuing to glow and boldly step forward!
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